Okay, so you meet the one some day. You both hit it off to the extreme
after taking time and really getting to know each other. You both feel
like it is time for the next level. To be with each other on a full time
basis. But........ they live in a differnt town or even 3-4 states
away. What things should be considered on who moves where? And for what
reasons?

depends on a lot of situation ,

who has a house, who doesnt, what if you both do , who has family , or
not, kids, parents, etc

job situation,

thats a hard one

Well I would say, jobs are a huge issue in that department. I mean, if
someone has a job like a Teacher or a Doctor, they could go
anywhere........But then again, if they have just a regular job working
in a hardware store, I'm sure they could find something else easily in
another town or state. On the other hand, you also have to consider
where the best place to live is. Who owns a house, etc........Is one or
the other happy living where they are? Would one of them be willing to
move, if they really found true love?

Ms Txs,, Again an Incredible Post,,,

Thier is so much to be considered in these Situations,
Children, Family, Health, Property, Jobs, Picking up
and moving involves Sacrificies of each ones lifestyle,
This is not something that should be rushed or taken with
a grain of salt, Communication is the Key word here in
all aspects of the move, The Relationship should fully be
explored before the decision is made,,,I do believe
LDR Relationships can work, it takes time and True
Commitment by both in order for the Union of Two Souls
to fully give in order to make the Union Work,

I fully agree with you all. It would be a hard one to do for those that
chose that path

If it gets cold in the winter (cold "spells" are ok) and it's not at or
closer to the ocean from where I currently live, I'm not moving. Simple
as that.

WEll, in my case, I got lucky..
We are both semi-retired, and have nothing to tie us down.

She is moving from California on the 28th of this months.

After three months of chatting IMs, Web Cams, and a four day visit..We
are going for the gusto!!

Hip Hip Horay!

Bobby wish you and yours all the happiness in life may you both have
nothing but love for each other in the years to come!

TYVM, TxsGal...

No more lonely nights..

HUMMM Txs that's a good one,
I believe that the one who has less to loose by the move
kid's school, job placement and if you own or rent
you know wouldn't like to leave my home just like that

I misread "LDR" as "LDS," thinking it meant Mormons. Ooops!

Glad for you Bibby, and for her...WHOOOO HOOOO



And Miss Texs, this has been a thought and a desire of mine to
try,,once, so YES it takes BOTH to work HARD on THAT THOUGHT and to
really do their homework and to SEEK all the on line support they can
get before setting into actions any real plans,,it is alot of
displacement and confusion to anyone one trying to make it work. But if
BOTH,,,work at it it BECOMES a plan and a MOVE!!!

When love calls, we all have to answer!!! If necessary, I'll travel the
world, to be with my destined!!!

hmmm, I dont know what to say anymore, after all those long time of
waiting moments, ugh, its sucks! I give up!!!!

SORRY BIBBY! I meant to wish you, and yours, hope and love!!!

i know exactly what you mean.. just started a relationship with someone
who lives 5 hours from here .. after we spent a great weekend together..
only problem my 4 year olds dad and grandparents are a very big part of
his life and i dont want to move him far away from them exspecially
since money is tight for both sides.. getting him back and forth would
be almost impossible.. am thinking bout moving around the dallas area
though if things go as good as they are now.. because once my ex's
grandparents sell their house they will be moving that direction to be
closer to some other family members that live near there..

so i'm thinkin bout making a move half way to where he is.. and
perhaps one day all the way .. but for now.. i'm spending 2 or more
weeks this summer in oklahoma city

You both would do what ever it took to make it happen. Easy
answer.....in my opinion.

It's always cool, to have your intended know the word, COMPROMISE!!!

IVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT.I GAVE UP EVERYTHING AND MOVED TO WHERE HE
WAS WAS THERE FOR 2AND A HALF YRS AND WAS NEVER REALLY HAPPY BEING SO
FAR AWAY FROM MY FAMILY THERE IS A WHOLE LOT OF THINGS TO CONSIDER AND
TO THINK ABOUT WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS AS WELL I MOVED BACK HOME NEEDLESS TO
SAY

((((Flame))))) Sorry,,,I can't imagine the lost and worry and pain,,,,
Glad ya made it back to where ya feel FRIENDS and FAMILY!!