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Topic: Now its even HARDER to meet people!
JustTim81's photo
Tue 03/24/09 01:38 AM
I have spent the past few week looking through chat rooms just to find out that people dont go to them anymore. Its like blogs and forums are the death of chat rooms! Now people go by pictures to find friends and lovers but what does a picture tell you?? Nothing about there personality thats for sure! I joined this place thinking it had chat rooms or a way to have a active conversation with someone. I think the worst way to meet people is by judging what they look like and not by who they are! I'm sorry. I'm just annoyed and venting because places like this are as impersonal as it gets and feeds the divorce rate of this country. I sound like a sinic! Its just so hard to meet people anymore and places like blogs and forums are not helping. We have gone from full out conversations to one-liners to find or attract good people. And these days, good people are few and fare in between. God, I sound like i'm old!! lol

Well, sorry again for my ramblings, I just feel lost anymore.

chriswantstocuddle's photo
Tue 03/24/09 01:41 AM
dont worry man you will figure it out.
i tend to try and get people off of here and into ims or other chats and i have met some good people that way

JustTim81's photo
Tue 03/24/09 02:56 AM
Thanks Chris, and i'm working on it. But where would you find a normal conversation here? I dont have much to say who I would want to fight or if someones god is better then mine and i'm sure not going to rate guys and girls on how they look. Thats just not me. I could start one like, "Your last day on Earth, what would you do?" But those would all be quick-quotes. I get enough of those living in Vegas! Granted there all like, "Get out of the way!" or "What are you looking at?" And going to bars here to meet people here is one of the worst things you could do. Everyone here is just looking for a way to use you. Vegas is great for jobs but bad for friends. I cope because I live for the little things in life.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 03/24/09 03:03 AM
5th cup o coffee tim?

JustTim81's photo
Tue 03/24/09 03:05 AM
More like 20th

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 03/24/09 03:14 AM
Ha ha ha! Easy man, check your expectations in the dating world and go decaf and all will be well.

no photo
Tue 03/24/09 03:15 AM
Don't believe everything you read.

mariposakc's photo
Tue 03/24/09 03:49 AM

Don't believe everything you read.


Ditto, pictures, words, even phone calls don't compare to meeting in person. And even then, there are no guarantees. I fear that I am getting accustomed to kissing alot of frogs and pirates, that when the good one shows up...all I will see is a frog or pirate. frustrated

JustTim81's photo
Tue 03/24/09 03:57 AM
I think my problem was I jumped into a relationships too fast and trying to get to know them while trying to date them. Its like jr. high all over again!!

JustTim81's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:00 AM
I probably screwed most of them up because we didn't get the chance to know each other before we tried to share a life together.

mariposakc's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:01 AM
It sure does feel like Jr High...grumble I would have thought that mature adults (my first mistake there) would have evolved since those early neanderthal days.laugh But we haven't.

whispertoascream's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:14 AM
I think I have been in a chatroom twice in my life. Never liked it much. Could never keep up. I like the forums. I can pick and chose where I want to go at a much slower pase.

Not that the forums help in meeting anybody either, but ehy here I am...LOL.

transientmind's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:20 AM

I think I have been in a chatroom twice in my life. Never liked it much. Could never keep up. I like the forums. I can pick and chose where I want to go at a much slower pase.

Not that the forums help in meeting anybody either, but ehy here I am...LOL.


Mornin' drinker

A few months back, I went onto an old chatroom haunt of mine to see what was happening. All I found was people who wanted me to join their religion or love me "wrong time."

mariposakc's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:22 AM


I think I have been in a chatroom twice in my life. Never liked it much. Could never keep up. I like the forums. I can pick and chose where I want to go at a much slower pase.

Not that the forums help in meeting anybody either, but ehy here I am...LOL.


Mornin' drinker

A few months back, I went onto an old chatroom haunt of mine to see what was happening. All I found was people who wanted me to join their religion or love me "wrong time."


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

whispertoascream's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:24 AM
OK, I am in tears over your display picture. I literally just screamed.

PLEASE hun, can you change that thingflowerforyou ? I am wigged out over here.

mariposakc's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:26 AM

OK, I am in tears over your display picture. I literally just screamed.

PLEASE hun, can you change that thingflowerforyou ? I am wigged out over here.


What is there to wig out over??? huh

JustTim81's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:26 AM
My butterfly? I dont have any pics of me so I put up one of my drawings.. But I will change it.

whispertoascream's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:27 AM


OK, I am in tears over your display picture. I literally just screamed.

PLEASE hun, can you change that thingflowerforyou ? I am wigged out over here.


What is there to wig out over??? huh
This girl has a unnuatural deathly fear of spiders. Just thinking of them cringe. scared

mariposakc's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:28 AM

My butterfly? I dont have any pics of me so I put up one of my drawings.. But I will change it.


No, no don't do that...it is beautifulhappy

whispertoascream's photo
Tue 03/24/09 04:28 AM

My butterfly? I dont have any pics of me so I put up one of my drawings.. But I will change it.
No, I like the butterfly. It is a very nice drawing. Wish I could draw like that.flowerforyou

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