Topic: More Give? or Take?
Fade2Black's photo
Fri 03/20/09 03:13 PM

devil I'm a taker now, it was time for a changepitchfork



Well you certainly 'gave' when we met you .. you had us dyin with laughter so you gave us just that - LAUGHTER bigsmile

evilbabe277's photo
Fri 03/20/09 06:47 PM
I'm a giver and I like being with givers flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 03/20/09 06:50 PM

I've always found that the better the relationship, the more I will give. Once the relationship starts to sour, the desire to please declines.

Although we all want nice things done for us as well, I've always found it difficult to accept, and feel sort of embarassed about taking. That, however, doesn't mean that the partner shouldn't at least make an attempt, so at least the other can sense their effort.


Exactly! :thumbsup:

Averageguy1964's photo
Fri 03/20/09 07:04 PM
Giver but getting real sick and tired ofit

evilbabe277's photo
Fri 03/20/09 07:45 PM

Giver but getting real sick and tired ofit



Don't ever be sick of who you are, don't change because of others that take advantage, be true to yourself...

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 03/20/09 07:48 PM


devil I'm a taker now, it was time for a changepitchfork



Well you certainly 'gave' when we met you .. you had us dyin with laughter so you gave us just that - LAUGHTER bigsmile




I was sharing my gift of humorflowerforyou





bigsmile

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 03/20/09 07:49 PM



devil I'm a taker now, it was time for a changepitchfork



Well you certainly 'gave' when we met you .. you had us dyin with laughter so you gave us just that - LAUGHTER bigsmile




I was sharing my gift of humorflowerforyou





bigsmile



did a good job of it too :wink:

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 03/20/09 07:54 PM

Do you consider yourself a giver? or a taker? in relationships, in life ..

Which one rocks your world?

:banana:


I am both..When needed I am a great giver and then at times I will stand right up and admit I am going to take..

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 03/20/09 07:58 PM


Do you consider yourself a giver? or a taker? in relationships, in life ..

Which one rocks your world?

:banana:


I am both..When needed I am a great giver and then at times I will stand right up and admit I am going to take..



You go girl!

devildog08's photo
Fri 03/20/09 08:00 PM
ima giver, but you gotta balance it out so that ppl dont take advantage of your genorosity

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 03/20/09 08:18 PM

ima giver, but you gotta balance it out so that ppl dont take advantage of your genorosity



True. But if you receive joy from that then I guess it weighs out in the end eh?

no photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:37 PM

Do you consider yourself a giver? or a taker? in relationships, in life ..

Which one rocks your world?

:banana:


I've always been a "giver", and it's quite honestly been a hindrance than anything else- I usually end up being used in some way due to my generosity, which results in not-so-nice things happening.


Redshirt's photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:42 PM
No doubt about it I am a giver. To be painful honest that means have set myself up in the past to be taken. Don't do that anymore.

evilbabe277's photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:56 PM
I'm a giver but like recieving also bigsmile

Redshirt's photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:58 PM

I'm a giver but like recieving also bigsmile


Nothing wrong with that. :thumbsup:

evilbabe277's photo
Fri 03/20/09 10:18 PM


I'm a giver but like recieving also bigsmile


Nothing wrong with that. :thumbsup:


its the only way it works :thumbsup:

no photo
Fri 03/20/09 10:25 PM

Do you consider yourself a giver? or a taker? in relationships, in life ..

Which one rocks your world?

:banana:
I give as much as they want and want no less than what I give!
:wink: flowerforyou How you been?

Cinderella75's photo
Sat 03/21/09 01:27 AM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Sat 03/21/09 01:27 AM
I used to be a giver, got burnt out..screw that!
It's all "gimme, gimme, gimme!" now -for the most part.

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 03/21/09 04:47 AM


Do you consider yourself a giver? or a taker? in relationships, in life ..

Which one rocks your world?

:banana:
I give as much as they want and want no less than what I give!
:wink: flowerforyou How you been?




I've been good hon .. just busy with moving. It'll calm down in a couple weeks I think .. :tongue: Hope you've been well ohwell flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 03/21/09 04:48 AM

I used to be a giver, got burnt out..screw that!
It's all "gimme, gimme, gimme!" now -for the most part.




Isn't that sad though. Because if those you gave to reciprocated you wouldn't feel that way today .. (( Cinderella )) flowerforyou