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Topic: do you get this as much as I do?
TattooedDude81's photo
Thu 03/19/09 08:32 PM
I never give out my number when I'm out somewhere, cause there's no one to give a number to! laugh laugh laugh frustrated

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Thu 03/19/09 08:36 PM

I don't get out a whole lot (as far as bars and clubs)But as of late, I have been going out a couple times a week, with the sole intention of meeting women. And yes, I do meet them, and I get there numbers. Here is the thing, I am about 0 for 10 as far as actually having them return my calls in the last couple months. The last one over St. paddy's day actually had a little make out session with me that night, so I figured this ones a done deal. No response..nothing...nada. I am either losing my touch or meeting the wrong people. I personally wouldn't give my digits to anyone I didn't plan on seeing at least once. Nor would I spend a few hours talking to them at a bar if I wasn't interested. What is up with this?


It's what happens when you meet people at bars. They're drinking and not serious about meeting people. Perhaps try meeting people in other places where alcohol isn't involved?

Adamal29's photo
Thu 03/19/09 08:49 PM


I don't get out a whole lot (as far as bars and clubs)But as of late, I have been going out a couple times a week, with the sole intention of meeting women. And yes, I do meet them, and I get there numbers. Here is the thing, I am about 0 for 10 as far as actually having them return my calls in the last couple months. The last one over St. paddy's day actually had a little make out session with me that night, so I figured this ones a done deal. No response..nothing...nada. I am either losing my touch or meeting the wrong people. I personally wouldn't give my digits to anyone I didn't plan on seeing at least once. Nor would I spend a few hours talking to them at a bar if I wasn't interested. What is up with this?


It's what happens when you meet people at bars. They're drinking and not serious about meeting people. Perhaps try meeting people in other places where alcohol isn't involved?


I have done this, half-heartedly at best. It usually involves me going to a book store or coffee place and sitting alone looking creepy.laugh Or looking at the magazine rack with a girl right there, and say something like "So you play guitar?" And then they say yea...and I say "cool." And then can't think of anything else. At a bar, it conversation just flows naturally (or unnaturally) what ever way you want to look at it.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 03/19/09 08:53 PM
3 words; quality, not quantity.

Jill298's photo
Thu 03/19/09 08:55 PM
Well the basic idea of going to bars is to socialize and meet other people. Because other people go to bars to meet other people laugh
I've spent so much time in book stores, coffee shops, etc and I've never met one person there.
I think if you happen to meet someone in a coffee shop or wal mart you just got lucky.

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Thu 03/19/09 09:17 PM

Well the basic idea of going to bars is to socialize and meet other people. Because other people go to bars to meet other people laugh
I've spent so much time in book stores, coffee shops, etc and I've never met one person there.
I think if you happen to meet someone in a coffee shop or wal mart you just got lucky.


I go out to bars to get drunk and make a fool out of myslef in front of others.

Roco's photo
Thu 03/19/09 10:40 PM
next time try exchanging e-mails instead...its a softer approach

roco

thetummytumbler's photo
Thu 03/19/09 10:56 PM
hey if they give u their numbers it shows theyre really interested in you r theyre really drunk give them time to clear there head dont call them let them call you if they do call theyre interested
good luck

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Fri 03/20/09 12:12 AM
I used to give out my friends numbers instead with fictious names like Fawn or Felicity!!!laugh laugh

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Fri 03/20/09 12:12 AM
ok I was terrible!!! God is punishing me now for my sins!!!indifferent

Jimmy59's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:20 AM
Don't feel bad your not aloan. Wait you are aloan and so I'm I
So I have no advice what so ever.ohwell

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