Aren't you tired of seeing someone you like and then after sending a message or reading about them in depth.. you read the top of the page next to their headling and you see "last seen over a month ago".

Doesn't that make you feel kinda deflated? I mean it's such a downer lol knowing that you might not hear back from that person for MONTHS!

I'd say that the sight should let you filter to see the "last logged in" peoples either first or last you know?

I have phases in an out of the site, like if I am dating someone, or if I go through a period where I don't want to date for awhile.

What annoys me is that messages seem to disappear from my inbox when I am inactive, so that if I don't log in for awhile, and someone sent me a message, that message disappears and I never get it.

I might have been interested in those people! I don't like to date several people at once, but I don't mind a salutation. Wouldn't you rather hear from me later than not at all? Maybe there should be a button for "actively looking" vs "dating someone" vs "taking a break" or whatever.