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Topic: Really sucks....
beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Mon 03/16/09 07:31 PM
So the marriage is off??? Go figure... My boys loved him. I hope the same happens to him and that he feels the pain ten times worse.

KimmiM Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 1694	Mon 03/16/09 07:32 PM
So the marriage is off??? Go figure... My boys loved him. I hope the same happens to him and that he feels the pain ten times worse. Deep down, you know you don't want that. It will pass in time, hon. Trust me.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Mon 03/16/09 07:32 PM
I feel numb... Wait until you don't feel anything at all ...Like me I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 03/16/09 07:34 PM
yes, many times, and it doesn't get easier, but i do get more numb, and can see it coming from a long way away now, so it's not painful like it was, but............numb, i work through it and talk to my friends, and focus on the people who need me which are many, including my recent ex and her fiance, that ended up homeless, and i took them in....very interesting set of feelings there. he felt very theatened, and caused a lot of friction, but i sat him down many times and talked to him and reassured him. beauty, i wish i could take the pain away my friend, but i can give you a huge(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( huuggg!!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and i'm sorry

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Mon 03/16/09 07:35 PM
I feel numb... Wait until you don't feel anything at all ...Like me I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man. Yeah, I hate fakers....I want a Christian man but if he isn't then just say so

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Mon 03/16/09 07:38 PM
yes, many times, and it doesn't get easier, but i do get more numb, and can see it coming from a long way away now, so it's not painful like it was, but............numb, i work through it and talk to my friends, and focus on the people who need me which are many, including my recent ex and her fiance, that ended up homeless, and i took them in....very interesting set of feelings there. he felt very theatened, and caused a lot of friction, but i sat him down many times and talked to him and reassured him. beauty, i wish i could take the pain away my friend, but i can give you a huge(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( huuggg!!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and i'm sorry thanks.......I feel like going over there and slashing his tires. Very Christian feelings I am having. LET ME CONFESS here why I am at it. I went and got me a bottle of crown royal and coke and YEAH I'm drunk........but the pain is still here. SEE I'm not perfect and I don't feel like a Christian right now. I'm a mess!!!

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Mon 03/16/09 07:39 PM Edited by OrangeCat on Mon 03/16/09 07:53 PM


wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Mon 03/16/09 07:40 PM
yes, many times, and it doesn't get easier, but i do get more numb, and can see it coming from a long way away now, so it's not painful like it was, but............numb, i work through it and talk to my friends, and focus on the people who need me which are many, including my recent ex and her fiance, that ended up homeless, and i took them in....very interesting set of feelings there. he felt very theatened, and caused a lot of friction, but i sat him down many times and talked to him and reassured him. beauty, i wish i could take the pain away my friend, but i can give you a huge(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( huuggg!!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and i'm sorry thanks.......I feel like going over there and slashing his tires. Very Christian feelings I am having. LET ME CONFESS here why I am at it. I went and got me a bottle of crown royal and coke and YEAH I'm drunk........but the pain is still here. SEE I'm not perfect and I don't feel like a Christian right now. I'm a mess!!! Try to sleep on it....He wasnnnnnnt worth it if ya got feelings like slashing tires...Hes a bumb let it be

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Mon 03/16/09 07:40 PM
I feel numb... Wait until you don't feel anything at all ...Like me I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man. Yeah, I hate fakers....I want a Christian man but if he isn't then just say so HE KNEW I WAS.......why lead me on and then later tell me he can't be as Godly as me.......I'm sorry WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!! He said he is coming for his ring tomorrow LOL I am pawing it first thing in the morning!

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 03/16/09 07:45 PM
I feel numb... Wait until you don't feel anything at all ...Like me I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man. Yeah, I hate fakers....I want a Christian man but if he isn't then just say so HE KNEW I WAS.......why lead me on and then later tell me he can't be as Godly as me.......I'm sorry WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!!!!!!! He said he is coming for his ring tomorrow LOL I am pawing it first thing in the morning! Some ( key word ) some guys are like that as well as woman too. Hopefully in time you will find that right guy rather or not he meets all of your needs or not is a whole other thing. Good luck.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Mon 03/16/09 07:46 PM
Sorry for your pain.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Mon 03/16/09 07:49 PM
Sorry for your pain. thanks

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Mon 03/16/09 07:50 PM
its hard we all know that but your friends here on Mingles will be here if you need them.. just shake a tree or two we will fall out.

beautyfrompain Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 4696	Mon 03/16/09 07:52 PM
its hard we all know that but your friends here on Mingles will be here if you need them.. just shake a tree or two we will fall out. how about saying a prayer for me

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 03/16/09 07:52 PM Edited by SitkaRains on Mon 03/16/09 07:59 PM
to have your heart ripped out and handed to you... GAWD I just reread this thread I am so sorry that this happened. I can totally relate to how you feel. You are going to have one heck of headache tomorrow. Take some time and show his sorry but he can't be as "Godly" as you... Be the better person and continue showing those great kids what a classy mom they have Remember there are a lot of people out here that care for you.

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 03/16/09 07:59 PM
its hard we all know that but your friends here on Mingles will be here if you need them.. just shake a tree or two we will fall out. how about saying a prayer for me done.

LadyMartha Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 626	Mon 03/16/09 08:04 PM
hope it gets better with time as took me 12 years but now i'm ready to try again go figure huh

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 03/16/09 08:08 PM
yes, many times, and it doesn't get easier, but i do get more numb, and can see it coming from a long way away now, so it's not painful like it was, but............numb, i work through it and talk to my friends, and focus on the people who need me which are many, including my recent ex and her fiance, that ended up homeless, and i took them in....very interesting set of feelings there. he felt very theatened, and caused a lot of friction, but i sat him down many times and talked to him and reassured him. beauty, i wish i could take the pain away my friend, but i can give you a huge(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( huuggg!!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and i'm sorry thanks.......I feel like going over there and slashing his tires. Very Christian feelings I am having. LET ME CONFESS here why I am at it. I went and got me a bottle of crown royal and coke and YEAH I'm drunk........but the pain is still here. SEE I'm not perfect and I don't feel like a Christian right now. I'm a mess!!! you're human, and entitled to these feelings. the creator understands, and was probably sparing you from a worse disaster from this hypocritical clown.....

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 03/16/09 08:14 PM
to have your heart ripped out and handed to you... Who is he??? Lemme at 'em.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 03/16/09 08:16 PM
I feel numb... Wait until you don't feel anything at all ...Like me I'm there. I will NEVER trust another man...especially a so-called Christian man. That's why you should go for Agnostics or an Atheist. That way....you know the dude isn't going to try to bull**** you to make himself look better in an effort to get into heaven.