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TLW - I wrote the following in a topic last night, I think. Anyway,
here is my opinion, just my opinion, for what it's worth. My experience is that those children left to ponder, consider and attain a spriituality of their own accord, seem to be the most prolific, the most understanding and the most open minded. These are people who solve problems, who think about and explore all manner of options in this world. This holds true for those who have cast off the more confined and limiting state of organized religions, for something they find, puts them in tune, in touch with this world as it is, with it's people as they are. Though some,still harbor animosity toward the group that made the journey to this path so difficult. They have grown and become explorers too. In no way am I saying that those of organized religions can not be wonderful, intelligent poeple, it is just my personal experience that the best development of one's spirituality is found through an individual series of explorations. To hamper this growth, this feeling of oneness, of belonging in this universe, with the dogma of an ancient religion, that only serves to propagate segregation, is to limit the far ranging adptabilty and inquisitive nature of a growing child. This is my observation here and it upholds one of those beliefs I did not list as an atheist. I chose to withhold as, by itself, it seems confrontational. But here with this explanation I will post a further belief. As an atiest I believe: That religion is not for us to teach. What is ours to teach is that every individual has the right to find for themselves, through their own explorations, how they fit into this world and what they choose to believe. What is ours to teach is that, (everything in this world has some value), and (only through respect of that which is valuable) do we learn and grow. |
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Once again, just my opinion ~~~ All people, children included, should be
educated & knowledgable of all religions/philosophies. That is how we make an educated & wise choice. Not everyone chooses the same path & all choices should be respected. |
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Red wrote:
“That religion is not for us to teach. What is ours to teach is that every individual has the right to find for themselves, through their own explorations, how they fit into this world and what they choose to believe.” I agree that religion is not for us to teach and I would never push a religion onto my children. I will share with them my knowledge of god though. I mean why wouldn’t I do that? The god I know has absolutely nothing at all to do with any religion. By that I simply mean that there is no church to attend, or any rituals to follow. God genuinely doesn’t care what you believe. Religion just isn’t important to god at all. God makes no demands or commandments. God’s love is entirely unconditional in the purest sense. God doesn’t even care if you’re an atheist. It doesn’t matter to god. Once my children came to know the real living god they simply wouldn’t have any interest in studying any religion. Why bother? |
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Hmmm, what will be interesting, I think, is when it comes down to
details. Why not raise the child with both religions, not saying either is wrong. I think the kid may end up surprising you, pointing out "differences" like, "this one's music is better", or "I don't like all the kneeling, standing and sitting without Simon says in front of it." In my experience, most of the "rules" of religion are the same. What is the difference between a seventh day adventist and a baptist- besides jewelry? |
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I agree with you Abra. "The god I know has absolutely nothing at all to do with any religion." Religion is just mans explaination of God that is understandable to us. But with so many different religions, they all contradict each other, thus setting in confussion. For anyone else, Why would God want to confuse us? (with religions) I don't think that He would. (religion is man made not god made) |
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when the children begin to ask about religion take them to a different
church every week..and watch their response... |
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