Please be totally honest with me... Being totally new to the "dating" "singles" thing. I have no clue where I stand. I feel like I probably look, closer to 44 or 45 than 42. (what age do I look?) I no, I'm not a "hot" guy, nor will I ever be. Nor is it really a priority to me. But it seems like reality is such that, women choose to talk to men that they feel are equal or greater than they see themselves, as far as looks go. (where do you rate me on a scale of 1-10?) please be honest.. As you read my profile, what is good and bad, in your honest opinion?
Thank you all in advance for your input.
Darrell

Profile looks good! You have a variety of pictures which show your interests. You lay out what you are looking for in a relationship.

Welcome to the site! And good luck!

DREAMY

Hey there Mr. Dumpty,

Just looked at your profile and have a few comments. Please be reminded, you did ask for honesty.
Like the pictures, not to sure about the bird? Why the ball cap? Folicly challenged? if so, don't hide it.
You look at least 50. just kidding, you look 40-45
About the shattered heart thing, women don't need a project to work on, they want to be the mans project. So I would loose the shatered heart, need patience thing.
Friends first, definitely good although you mentioned it twice. A bit redundant.
Roaming the casinos, sounds creepy. Might want to reword.

Well hope it helps in your quest. God speed!!

I agree about the hat photo, women would like to see what you look like.

Kudos to writing more than two sentences.

However, no one, man or woman, wants a 'shattered' person. Fix yourself and go from there.

Thank you Jungian!
you are right .. roaming the casino's .. lol didn't think of it that way . I just play one machine go to the next to the next, then try cards for a while. but it does sound wierd.. ty! Folicly challenged? After my separation. I decided to shave my head. just to signify in my own mind a new begining. am not sure about how comfortable I am with it .. but getting there. I do need to add a pic w/o a hat ty.
TY Mirror and tanyaann for the welcome! greatly appreciated!

Thanks Lilith.. I think your exactly right. loose the hat in a pic., and update the shattered heart. it's alot better in recent months. still scarred, but aren't we all.

Thank you all for your help!
Darrell

No need to say you're scarred. Just leave that out. It will scare away all stable women.

Good luck to you!

Hey Dumpty,

You are most welcomed on the pointers.
In re-writing your profile don't forget to add some humer to it. Bringing a smile to womans lips is a knock at the door to her heart.

Best'

Oops, Humor not humer. Sorry

Jungian: Great idea.. ! ty