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Topic: The Spark of Love
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:34 PM
well this is involves a debate into what love is, but I believe that when were younger and not as experienced with relationships the main thing that sparks a humans interest into believing there could be something more serious is physical sexual attraction. As we learn from our unsuccessful relationships and grow more wiser emotional, and mental factors play a bigger role in developing what we individually believe love is. this is very true I think so too

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:35 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about Thank you your gal is a lucky lady Do u think im Dan?!! Sorry love! its Lisa here, guess i should change my pic back!! I thought you were Dan at first too

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Mon 03/09/09 01:35 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about Thank you your gal is a lucky lady She sure is Am i lost in translation??!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:36 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about I concur Stop it!! im Thankyou! You're welcome blushing lady

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/09/09 01:36 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about Thank you your gal is a lucky lady Do u think im Dan?!! Sorry love! its Lisa here, guess i should change my pic back!! yes you confused me But yeh....Dan is a lucky guy! lol! yall make a cute couple

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:36 PM
I don't know.....How good is the sex we are talking about here? Your spark of love is sexual? What can I say? I am a sexual person. I think a lot of us are. What is "good sex" for you? Hmmm now there is a loaded question. It all depends on my mood. Sometimes I like is soft and sensual, others, I like it rough and hard, then there are times I like it hard and deep. Keep it interesting, switch things up, be able to try new things, and I am a happy person. Wow, thats a good answer. You really do know what you like you know i like that answer too I like it too I've got some new stuff I wanna try on you Should I be worried? no you should be well rested before we meet You are looking for an intimate encounter? one that last a lifetime nice

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:37 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about Thank you your gal is a lucky lady Do u think im Dan?!! Sorry love! its Lisa here, guess i should change my pic back!! yes you confused me But yeh....Dan is a lucky guy! lol! He sure is

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/09/09 01:38 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about Thank you your gal is a lucky lady Do u think im Dan?!! Sorry love! its Lisa here, guess i should change my pic back!! I thought you were Dan at first too oh goody I don't feel so dumb now

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:40 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about Thank you your gal is a lucky lady She sure is Am i lost in translation??!! lol

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:41 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about Thank you your gal is a lucky lady Do u think im Dan?!! Sorry love! its Lisa here, guess i should change my pic back!! I thought you were Dan at first too oh goody I don't feel so dumb now I feel kinda silly too for thinking it was Dan

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Mon 03/09/09 01:43 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about Thank you your gal is a lucky lady Do u think im Dan?!! Sorry love! its Lisa here, guess i should change my pic back!! I thought you were Dan at first too oh goody I don't feel so dumb now I feel kinda silly too for thinking it was Dan I feel left out...I didn't feel a thing!!

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Mon 03/09/09 01:43 PM Edited by Pink_lady on Mon 03/09/09 01:45 PM
Thats the most ive laughed in ages! the pics arent the same, but similar! Haha!! must deliberately try that another time! Its funny how even tho i wrote in shortcut language and talked about relationships that u still thought it was Dan!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:44 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well. So yours is primarily emotional and intellectual? Not necessarily...diff ppl may arouse diff feelings in u for diff reasons. 1 might be so good looking, we have feelings of lust and excitement which if sexually compatible, can create a spark of energy. Then there is mentally. The person who maybe doesnt stand out at u until u speak to them...and learn they r extremely interesting and charismatic, and u think similarly, that can create a spark. Then theres emotionally, after gettin to know someone, u feel u "connect" and were destined to meet. U understand and apreciate their emotional nature, and want the same things, that can create a spark. There r no hard and fast rules. Whether it starts one way or another, the spark encompasses all aspects. you know what you're talking about Thank you your gal is a lucky lady Do u think im Dan?!! Sorry love! its Lisa here, guess i should change my pic back!! I thought you were Dan at first too oh goody I don't feel so dumb now I feel kinda silly too for thinking it was Dan I feel left out...I didn't feel a thing!! Thats a shame

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:45 PM
Thats the most ive laughed in ages! the pics arent the same, but similar! Haha!! must deliberately try that another time! Ever since you two put those similar pictures up it has been confusing the heck outta me

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Mon 03/09/09 01:46 PM Edited by TheresMyFriend on Mon 03/09/09 01:46 PM
Thats a shame Yea...I know it...(sniff-sniff)

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:48 PM
Thats a shame Yea...I know it...(sniff-sniff) Now I am crying too

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Mon 03/09/09 01:48 PM Edited by Pink_lady on Mon 03/09/09 01:49 PM
Yea...I know it...(sniff-sniff) drinks That was a big edit! ^^ lol!

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/09/09 01:49 PM
Thats the most ive laughed in ages! the pics arent the same, but similar! Haha!! must deliberately try that another time! Its funny how even tho i wrote in shortcut language and talked about relationships that u still thought it was Dan! I was thinking that the comment seemed nonmale like but it was funny

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Mon 03/09/09 01:51 PM
Thats a shame Yea...I know it...(sniff-sniff) Now I am crying too There...there...now...no need to shed your tears(leaning your head on my shoulder)...it's all going to be alright...(patting top of your head)!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:52 PM
Yea...I know it...(sniff-sniff) drinks That was a big edit! ^^ lol! It sure was