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no drugs or drinking. He is 30 Good question, Tina. |
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no drugs or drinking. He is 30 Hmmmm....interesting. I hate to assume or judge...but, it sounds like he may be getting bored with you sexually, or maybe he is just losing his sex drive. Is he stressed out about anything? Maybe he just has too much other stuff on his mind. This has happened to me before. Anyway...best of luck to you. Hope it all works out. |
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no drugs or drinking. He is 30 Good question, Tina. |
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He might just not be that into sex. I know men who are this way. They just aren't into it... It's not common but it happens.
When they first dated, he was more interested but now is comfortable and wants to stop it mostly. She needs to let him know this is NOT okay. It could be heating, it could be drugs, it could bea lot of things. But why not rule out the most likely answer first? I could see if they were like bunnies before, but they weren't! |
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I'm sure he is not using drugs, he drinks but very rarely. well the other issue is he is not normal when it comes to sex.. he is very kinky and dark. I want to try some of that stuff but something holds me back. I need to learn to just let go and do it.
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I'm sure he is not using drugs, he drinks but very rarely. well the other issue is he is not normal when it comes to sex.. he is very kinky and dark. I want to try some of that stuff but something holds me back. I need to learn to just let go and do it. |
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Now were getting somewhere.
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I usually just read these and never reply, it seems like u may have just answered your question lol. He may want you to get on board with his kinkyness????
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yup, i told you, hes gay
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kINKY and dark???
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a goth with a strap on named roy...
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I'm sure he is not using drugs, he drinks but very rarely. well the other issue is he is not normal when it comes to sex.. he is very kinky and dark. I want to try some of that stuff but something holds me back. I need to learn to just let go and do it. The plot thickens... |
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pretty much degrade him, hitting, whipping etc. that type of stuff
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a goth with a strap on named roy... |
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pretty much degrade him, hitting, whipping etc. that type of stuff |
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I feel silly doing it.
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pretty much degrade him, hitting, whipping etc. that type of stuff That explains a lot. A LOT. I'll say it again, he's just not that into sex. That isn't about sex. It's not intimate. And OP~~ thiswon't go away. You need to address it. |
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Hmmm. 6 months deep and tossing the 'l' word around. They live together and he's into the kinky stuff.
This is why you don't just jump into things. At least this is why I don't. I really do feel for u op but you really don't know anyone that well in 6 months. And I don't think I would be able to live with someone I didn't know very well. Especially if we were to be romantically involved with one another. Jmo. |
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pretty much degrade him, hitting, whipping etc. that type of stuff That can be fun...if you are a bit of a control freak. He wants you to dominate him. If you really love him, and want to be with him...you might wanna try it out. Just make sure he remembers the "safe" word. |
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wow
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