Topic: A little help....
Winx's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:27 AM


no drugs or drinking. He is 30
I'd be inquiring if this has happen in past relationshipsflowerforyou


Good question, Tina.

Filmfreek's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:28 AM

no drugs or drinking. He is 30


Hmmmm....interesting.

I hate to assume or judge...but, it sounds like he may be getting bored with you sexually, or maybe he is just losing his sex drive.

Is he stressed out about anything?

Maybe he just has too much other stuff on his mind. This has happened to me before.

Anyway...best of luck to you. Hope it all works out.

flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:30 AM



no drugs or drinking. He is 30
I'd be inquiring if this has happen in past relationshipsflowerforyou


Good question, Tina.
flowerforyou I'd have things figered out quick:tongue:

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:30 AM
He might just not be that into sex. I know men who are this way. They just aren't into it... It's not common but it happens.

When they first dated, he was more interested but now is comfortable and wants to stop it mostly. She needs to let him know this is NOT okay.

It could be heating, it could be drugs, it could bea lot of things. But why not rule out the most likely answer first? I could see if they were like bunnies before, but they weren't!

freedomrings08's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:32 AM
I'm sure he is not using drugs, he drinks but very rarely. well the other issue is he is not normal when it comes to sex.. he is very kinky and dark. I want to try some of that stuff but something holds me back. I need to learn to just let go and do it.

misstina2's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:34 AM

I'm sure he is not using drugs, he drinks but very rarely. well the other issue is he is not normal when it comes to sex.. he is very kinky and dark. I want to try some of that stuff but something holds me back. I need to learn to just let go and do it.
flowerforyou you should do what you feel comfortable withflowerforyou

7z3r05's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:35 AM
Now were getting somewhere.

DaBadGuy4U's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:35 AM
I usually just read these and never reply, it seems like u may have just answered your question lol. He may want you to get on board with his kinkyness????

cottonelle's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:35 AM
yup, i told you, hes gay

no photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:35 AM
kINKY and dark???huh

DaBadGuy4U's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:36 AM
a goth with a strap on named roy...

Filmfreek's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:37 AM

I'm sure he is not using drugs, he drinks but very rarely. well the other issue is he is not normal when it comes to sex.. he is very kinky and dark. I want to try some of that stuff but something holds me back. I need to learn to just let go and do it.


The plot thickens...laugh

freedomrings08's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:39 AM
pretty much degrade him, hitting, whipping etc. that type of stuff

no photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:40 AM

a goth with a strap on named roy...
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

misstina2's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:40 AM

pretty much degrade him, hitting, whipping etc. that type of stuff
thats not too crazyflowerforyou

freedomrings08's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:41 AM
I feel silly doing it.

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:42 AM

pretty much degrade him, hitting, whipping etc. that type of stuff


That explains a lot. A LOT.

I'll say it again, he's just not that into sex. That isn't about sex. It's not intimate. And OP~~ thiswon't go away. You need to address it.

7z3r05's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:43 AM
Hmmm. 6 months deep and tossing the 'l' word around. They live together and he's into the kinky stuff.

This is why you don't just jump into things. At least this is why I don't. I really do feel for u op but you really don't know anyone that well in 6 months. And I don't think I would be able to live with someone I didn't know very well. Especially if we were to be romantically involved with one another. Jmo.

Filmfreek's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:44 AM

pretty much degrade him, hitting, whipping etc. that type of stuff


That can be fun...if you are a bit of a control freak. He wants you to dominate him. If you really love him, and want to be with him...you might wanna try it out. Just make sure he remembers the "safe" word.:wink:

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 03/09/09 10:46 AM
what wowwhat