Topic: Waste of time?
RICOL's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:53 PM
I have been here for awhile and mer 1 girl and been stood up twice.

I have been meeting more woman at the gym and coffee house in the last few months.
Have the same girls looking at my photos but never sends a message or answer one. I believe the girls are just really are not interest in dating on here or they are looking for some perfect guy.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:56 PM

I have been here for awhile and mer 1 girl and been stood up twice.

I have been meeting more woman at the gym and coffee house in the last few months.
Have the same girls looking at my photos but never sends a message or answer one. I believe the girls are just really are not interest in dating on here or they are looking for some perfect guy.



bigsmile I try hard to be perfectbigsmile

Peccy's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:04 PM

I have been here for awhile and mer 1 girl and been stood up twice.

I have been meeting more woman at the gym and coffee house in the last few months.
Have the same girls looking at my photos but never sends a message or answer one. I believe the girls are just really are not interest in dating on here or they are looking for some perfect guy.
Welcome to the world of online dating where imperfection tries to mesh with perfection!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:22 PM
drinker I think you are perfect just the way you aredrinker

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:25 PM
Window shopping!!

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Sun 03/08/09 02:33 PM

I have been here for awhile and mer 1 girl and been stood up twice.

I have been meeting more woman at the gym and coffee house in the last few months.
Have the same girls looking at my photos but never sends a message or answer one. I believe the girls are just really are not interest in dating on here or they are looking for some perfect guy.



Well, I've had more or less the same experience. Except I haven't met anybody from here and probably never will. It's clear that the sort of person I'm looking for hasn't yet reached the point where they consider dating sites to be a viable option for them.

But there are a lot of things I really love about this site, so that's why I'm still here....

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:35 PM
You've been here a whole month and a half, and you're already b!tching? spock

You're doing a hell of a lot better than most other folks as far as meeting people (if that's what you're here for).

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:38 PM
Online dating is not a promise that you'll meet someone.. I'm sure you've turned down and looked at just as many photo's.. You and/or they are interested or not.. What's the big deal? It's the same at the gym, grocery store, church, bar, single functions...

I don't understand why one assumes that b/c they're on a dating site, a "free" one at that, that they will meet "the one"... And if they don't then something is wrong with the site or that gender... Out of the millions of people in the world a few hundred don't really make the ratio concrete fact....

As for women on this site not wanting to date.. A lot of men and women have made loads of friends and are on here to keep those relationships and enjoy the forums... JMO...

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:40 PM
im not whining i don't care i was stood up

3 times by three completlly diffrent women so don't feel bad flowerforyou


just remember smile :smile:

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Sun 03/08/09 02:56 PM
Edited by durtydduck on Sun 03/08/09 02:57 PM
Oh boy another thread about someone not getting the results THEY want.... I love the comedy here I get to laugh and actually see some pretty dumb and yes smart things.. It is amazing to behold such a wonderous site. (pun intended)

scoundrel's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:59 PM
When does the "only common denominator = you" show up?

Winx's photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:01 PM

I have been here for awhile and mer 1 girl and been stood up twice.

I have been meeting more woman at the gym and coffee house in the last few months.
Have the same girls looking at my photos but never sends a message or answer one. I believe the girls are just really are not interest in dating on here or they are looking for some perfect guy.


Maybe it has something to do with the fact that you're looking for an intimate encounter.

ProteinGirl's photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:01 PM
It's only a waste of time if your expectations are too high in my opinion.

I have met 2 people from here, it's just a backwards process to meeting in person.

Chin up, keep on truckin'!

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:02 PM


I have been here for awhile and mer 1 girl and been stood up twice.

I have been meeting more woman at the gym and coffee house in the last few months.
Have the same girls looking at my photos but never sends a message or answer one. I believe the girls are just really are not interest in dating on here or they are looking for some perfect guy.


Maybe it has something to do with the fact that you're looking for an intimate encounter.


laugh laugh laugh slaphead

whispertoascream's photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:06 PM


I have been here for awhile and mer 1 girl and been stood up twice.

I have been meeting more woman at the gym and coffee house in the last few months.
Have the same girls looking at my photos but never sends a message or answer one. I believe the girls are just really are not interest in dating on here or they are looking for some perfect guy.


Maybe it has something to do with the fact that you're looking for an intimate encounter.
rofl slaphead

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:10 PM
If you wanna get laid, go to a motel like an evangelist would.

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Sun 03/08/09 03:13 PM

If you wanna get laid, go to a motel like an evangelist would.


Sure, but then you have to go on TV and cry for 45 minutes after you get caught.

no photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:13 PM
love They're all fools. I think you're yummyliscious. love

Moondark's photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:14 PM

I have been here for awhile and mer 1 girl and been stood up twice.

I have been meeting more woman at the gym and coffee house in the last few months.
Have the same girls looking at my photos but never sends a message or answer one. I believe the girls are just really are not interest in dating on here or they are looking for some perfect guy.


The ones that never say anything when they look at your profile probably have nothing to say since your profile says nothing either.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:37 PM
It amazes me it is such a waste of time yet............your still here.noway noway slaphead