Topic: do you think you should...
trgirl's photo
Sun 03/08/09 12:02 AM
drink alcohol on the first date?

i just got back from my first date in 8 yrs and while we had a very good time for the first couple hours, he drank crown w/seven and i did have a couple of drinks but i was driving and did not want to drink more than 2. but after the 4th hour was getting a little loud and arrogant and was almost mean with is tone and his comments to me were belittling.
we left it with him saying he would like to learn to play disc golf with me tomorrow but i told him i was playing wth my daughter and i did not think it would be a good idea. now i do not play golf with my daughter she is to young but i just wasn't sure if i could listen to someone talk down to me again.whoa

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 03/08/09 12:05 AM

drink alcohol on the first date?

i just got back from my first date in 8 yrs and while we had a very good time for the first couple hours, he drank crown w/seven and i did have a couple of drinks but i was driving and did not want to drink more than 2. but after the 4th hour was getting a little loud and arrogant and was almost mean with is tone and his comments to me were belittling.
we left it with him saying he would like to learn to play disc golf with me tomorrow but i told him i was playing wth my daughter and i did not think it would be a good idea. now i do not play golf with my daughter she is to young but i just wasn't sure if i could listen to someone talk down to me again.whoa



flowerforyou I wouldnt recommend drnking on the first dateflowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/08/09 12:06 AM
First date, second, etc. doesn't matter if you can hold your liquor and are a nice drinker. He sounds like a mean drinker and I wouldn't go out with him again...

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Sun 03/08/09 12:10 AM
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I agree. He doesn't sound nice

trgirl's photo
Sun 03/08/09 12:11 AM
thanks mirror and princess. i dont think i will go out with him again

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Sun 03/08/09 12:17 AM
If you aren't downing the hooch like it was water, you shouldn't have any trouble at all. If anything, a little bit of alcohol on the first date can actually help eliminate the first-date jitters that usually take place during the first-date.

scoundrel's photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:29 AM
Alcohol can be fuel to energize the Baggage Express.

Get it going. I want to see the real person, quickly, rather than be sucked in by careful pretensions and then blind-sided later.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sun 03/08/09 03:34 AM

drink alcohol on the first date?

i just got back from my first date in 8 yrs and while we had a very good time for the first couple hours, he drank crown w/seven and i did have a couple of drinks but i was driving and did not want to drink more than 2. but after the 4th hour was getting a little loud and arrogant and was almost mean with is tone and his comments to me were belittling.
we left it with him saying he would like to learn to play disc golf with me tomorrow but i told him i was playing wth my daughter and i did not think it would be a good idea. now i do not play golf with my daughter she is to young but i just wasn't sure if i could listen to someone talk down to me again.whoa

Actually, this might be a blessing in disguise. You got to see firsthand how alcohol affects this man.