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Topic: Help
unsure's photo
Sat 03/07/09 09:30 PM
Honestly, as hard as this is on you..you have to realize that you might have just saved your son's life. If he is into drugs now, things are only going to get worse. If he is stealing things and selling it for drugs, in a year whats he going to be doing?
If he gets mad at you, just tell him you done everything out of love. TOUGH LOVE is very hard to do, but being a enabler is something that will get you no where fast! You did the right thing for your son, you did it out of love! I will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Sat 03/07/09 09:32 PM








so im assuming hes into drugs too?


Yes


That means consequences to his actions!


YES which is what he needs!
I found out while at the police station, he is involved deep into drugs. Though they haven't arrested him, he has been watched for suspicious activity. One of his friends, is about to go to jail for a long time once he goes to court. Wow..how do they(the police) know more than me?? I feel like I don't even know who my son is


Have you tried Nar-Anon?

What is that?


It's similar to Alanon but it's for the friends and families of addicts. I put a post earlier on the thread for the on-line Nar-Anon.


Thanks. I will check that out.

You're welcome.flowerforyou

It's helped me in the past. It's helped some of my friends too.

I'm sorry that you have to go through this.flowerforyou

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Sat 03/07/09 09:54 PM

Honestly, as hard as this is on you..you have to realize that you might have just saved your son's life. If he is into drugs now, things are only going to get worse. If he is stealing things and selling it for drugs, in a year whats he going to be doing?
If he gets mad at you, just tell him you done everything out of love. TOUGH LOVE is very hard to do, but being a enabler is something that will get you no where fast! You did the right thing for your son, you did it out of love! I will keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers flowerforyou


Ironically-he is mad. He understands why I did what I did.
Thank you, I need all the prayers I can get.

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Sat 03/07/09 09:55 PM









so im assuming hes into drugs too?


Yes


That means consequences to his actions!


YES which is what he needs!
I found out while at the police station, he is involved deep into drugs. Though they haven't arrested him, he has been watched for suspicious activity. One of his friends, is about to go to jail for a long time once he goes to court. Wow..how do they(the police) know more than me?? I feel like I don't even know who my son is


Have you tried Nar-Anon?

What is that?


It's similar to Alanon but it's for the friends and families of addicts. I put a post earlier on the thread for the on-line Nar-Anon.


Thanks. I will check that out.

You're welcome.flowerforyou

It's helped me in the past. It's helped some of my friends too.

I'm sorry that you have to go through this.flowerforyou


Thanks
I hope I get a lot out of it too. I need something before I go freaking nuts

Winx's photo
Sat 03/07/09 09:58 PM
Maybe get on the online one right now. That's where I started. It's through Yahoo groups.

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Sat 03/07/09 10:05 PM
Yeah, I am there.

Winx's photo
Sat 03/07/09 10:25 PM
Edited by Winx on Sat 03/07/09 10:26 PM

Yeah, I am there.


Let me know what you think of it, okay?flowerforyou




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Sat 03/07/09 10:27 PM


Yeah, I am there.


Let me know what you think of it, okay?flowerforyou






I will. I am trying to figure it all out right now.
will probably grasp more tomorrow once I have had a good nights
sleep. thank you so much for everything flowers

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