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I like to think of it as "I love the concept of you"... I'll know more once we meet face to face. I agree.  You're lying!
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, but that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there. 
The question was, if you love someone....not IN love.... but love... I love the Who of Gypsy.... Artgurl, S1owhand... and a gazillion others.... doesn't mean I want to hump their leg, or marry them.   
You got your headlights on high beam?
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love as in interested in someone to date...um i would have to say no until you meet cause sometimes when you meet in person the ew and ah,just becomes ew
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 heres the definition of practical I felt was appropiate for this question Level-headed, efficient, and unspeculative.
You are so intelligent Tina
I looked it up sweety
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
 That is so wonderful Britney and I am so happy for you. Randy sounds like a great guy.
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Is love practical?
What do you think Tina?
perhaps a person can love someone they haven't met and when they meet that person that love becomes deeper
Thats how it was for Peccy
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
That is so wonderful Brittany and I am so happy for you. Randy sounds like a great guy.
thanks sweetheart!
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Thu 03/05/09 01:13 PM
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
 Wow! You had people wanting to marry you that never met you in person?
NO!! I didn't say THEY wanted to marry me; I said that I THOUGHT I could marry -- based on personality/goals alone. My romantic mind steps ahead of logic sometimes. 
Geez, between you and Jess, I can't make a comment today without it being taken out of context or by broadening my thoughts. 
I'm with Lilith -- I'm getting wicked crappy today! *stomp and pout* 
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love as in interested in someone to date...um i would have to say no until you meet cause sometimes when you meet in person the ew and ah,just becomes ew
aaaah, someone that is like me and gets me! 
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Is love practical?
What do you think Tina?
perhaps a person can love someone they haven't met and when they meet that person that love becomes deeper
Thats how it was for Peccy
yes I know they said I love you before meeting
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love as in interested in someone to date...um i would have to say no until you meet cause sometimes when you meet in person the ew and ah,just becomes ew
ew ,good point
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Is love practical?
What do you think Tina?
perhaps a person can love someone they haven't met and when they meet that person that love becomes deeper
Thats how it was for Peccy
yes I know they said I love you before meeting
It wuz magical
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
Wow! You had people wanting to marry you that never met you in person?
NO!! I didn't say THEY wanted to marry me; I said that I THOUGHT I could marry -- based on personality/goals alone. My romantic mind steps ahead of logic sometimes.
Geez, between you and Jess, I can't make a comment today without it being taken out of context or by broadening my thoughts.
I'm with Lilith -- I'm getting wicked crappy today! *stomp and pout*
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well i love my best friend but im not in love with my best friend.
So if u love them well why not and let them know but if your in love with them well why not and let them know. |
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well i love my best friend but im not in love with my best friend. So if u love them well why not and let them know but if your in love with them well why not and let them know. excellent point
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If you love them. Yes. Yes!
Had ye been in love, then your heart would shout your mind into silence for being "sensible" too much. For the heart in love will tell you this: I loved you before we ever met...but I could not make my brain say the truth, because the brain is prouder than proud, fearing to be embarrassed by life; for the heart gives life, the brain cannot, and both are jealous of their powers. |
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
I love Michael with all my heart. But I waited till we had been dating for 2 months before I allowed myself to love him. I think we both said "I love you" at the same time though. |
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
No. It would be illogical to think that you could have feelings intense enough to say "i love you" for someone you've solely met online. It would make no sense. |
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I tell my daughter I love her all the time on Skype......
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They are not words I use lightly, so to say it to someone I have never met no matter how much we may have chatted or emailed or talked on the phone just isn't feasible with me. Online does give you the opportunity to get to know someone on a whole different and deeper set of levels, but it doesn't allow all aspects of love to form.
Fall in love with the idea of love yes But that's like falling in love with a movie you watched or a book you read, filling in lots of ways but not there in the same way. |
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