There is a guy that I really like. He and I have been friends for quite some time now. Well he is moving farther away from me and I dont want too lose him. And I really want to be near him. He knows that I like him too. He can keep me laughing when I talk to him and he makes me blush quite a bit too. Even told the guy I feel like picking up my stuff and moving there too!! Even talked about before if live in the same place that he would want to be more than friends. And I really want to be more than friends with this guy!! I don't know what to do. But I do know I dont want to lose him... And I have been wanting to move for some time now anyway. And this would give us the chance to be together too.

I need help figuring this out...........

if what you say is true and you know what you want and feel,and you know he is true in what he wants and feels.....


all i have to say is make sure you have the money for the move,have the money to get started in a new place,make sure you have a job set up...


and always make sure you not gonna get down there and regret it down the road when he turns out the be the wrong guy.not saying he will be either just saying

Just be sure you are doing it for the right reasons....

You don't want to lose a guy who is already moving away...instead of moving together.

Apparently he hasn't asked you to make the big plunge...just hints and what ifs...so it boils down to you want to move and stay near him until he does pop the question.

Nah. If you move, you'll be handy and dandy, but that's all.
Sorry.

Why is he just your friend?

He knows you like him and hasnt made the move yet.

He's just not that into you.

The thing is we dont live near each other. We talk online and we talk on the phone too. And we do like each other!!

have you actually met him yet??

Then i would carry things on as they are for a while and see if it develops, and move later if things work out. You'll have to make more effort visiting eachother. There is nothing to move for just yet, at least you cannot be sure it would work out.

Good question.

not yet but we do want to meet. and we have seen each other on webcam too.

Please tell me you are joking......

In that case go meet him. But remember to book a return flight.

You are getting too involved too quickly. Dangerous. Be cool.

sorry


aint good enough to move for

thats all I am saying on that

also he lost his job in Jan. So thats why hes having to move he got a job somewhere else.

I agree. And don't move!!!

Dan knows about LDR better then most of us.

I know your a sweetheart.


but your crazy for even thinking about moving with someone you havent even met yet.


to me thats just stupid but thats my honest opionion it just aint safe for you.

I wholeheartedly agree

ditto what oc said!!

just thought of something changing the subject for a second. I use to help clean this guys house. And I hadnt seen him for awhile and I had lost some weight. He didnt recongise me. Well we started cleaning his house again. And the dude was 80 I think and he was like will you marry me?? I just laughed!! And he had bought the house after he had gotten back out of jail and his house was PINK!!

i agree