Hi,
Just a thought. I met someone when I first joined this site a month ago. It went great and we text/call everyday. But, he doesn't seem to know what he wants because of the distance. I've got tickets to come there next week. (He said how much he wished he could see me). Well, I figured he drove all the way (6 hours) last time & I could come there this time. Anyway, i'm just nervous that i'm going to get even more attached and that all he is concerned about is being in bed with me. Basically, i'm afraid of getting hurt again!
If someone is interested in me and we keep meeting up for awhile wouldn't you think relocating would be an okay concept? Just uncertain. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Tyleah

Take it slow; you are afraid of getting hurt, so view this as a fun thing with few strings, until you start to get a different vibe from him; but watch out that you don't just see/hear what you want to see/hear. Relocating is ok, if there is a commitment to care/suport each other.

true true

If you already met him once..And he didnt try anything..Why would you think different 2nd time around...Do it...Might be something there for the both of ya

Well, he wanted to last time but my rule is first time I meet with someone that isn't on my agenda at all! Otherwise he was in for the taking.

Im sure he could just "go to bed" with plenty of girls...

sounds like hes putting alot more into it with you.

So I would say, go for it!

Sounds good. I will know more once I go visit.

I agree with not doing this on the first date. especially if you meet them off the internet. No offense to anyone but you dont know who they really are or what they want.
All you know is what they write to you and tell you on the phone.

However. I think its great that you are showing the interest in going to see him. I wish I had someone that was like you.

Very true. Thanks for the reply. ;)

I wish you all the best babe

BTW..

I have a good feeling about it.

I dont know why ...

but I do.

That's what my friends have been saying. Wow!! I'm gonna go for it.

Didn't mean relocating this soon haha. Just meant why is this an issue of distance for him? lol.

Please be careful!! Your young and all kind of bad things can happen. Think long. Think hard. Get to really know him and that takes time. Make sure everyone knows when and where u r with him. Boy you have guts. I'd be a nervous wreck. Just b careful

Oh I was nervous haha. But I always meet somewhere public and where I know people.

Because when he dumps you he wants to be far away. Look you've known this guy for a month, a month, be very careful.

Okay... ?? lol.

Guys always think about getting some. But dont let that deter you from trying to form a relationship. Thats just how (most) guys are

. She's young. I'm scared for her

And, i'm also careful. Haha. My friend is coming to the bus station as well to pick me up in Chicago. It will be fine. Cannot believe ya all worry too much. I already met him. And, we talk everyday i'm sure it'll be fine. If not we'll be in public or around people the whole time so if anything goes wrong i'll scream or use my maise.

U can lay the smackdown on hiz candyazz if he tried to do anything.