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I think BigGlen has the best answer hello everybody doin good Kojack you? Told ya. |
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what are some good conversation starters? "hello, my name is __________ and i got herpies. lets chat" |
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what are some good conversation starters? hey goodlooking, whats cooking |
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I agree with what Carebear and Kojack originally said. Also, if she is a forum poster, you might reference something she asked about or commented on.
Best of luck to you, I hope it works out. |
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why change when you have chosen the perfect one Sometimes i get tired of same picture so go to a diff one |
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I have mailed my matches... I am just myself. I tell them I'm mailing because we matched, and then I tell them why I clicked on yes. I then say some things that aren't in my profile... and say I hope to hear back from them.
I usually hear back, ummm 25-40% of the time, depending. |
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what are some good conversation starters? Hi... How did this happen? I mean you're 26 and in California, why did you match with a 50 year old guy in Michigan??? True story, only she was 19. |
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I agree with lilith
Can't be no one except urself |
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so the spark plug thing is pretty good.
i just wrote to her and basically said that i'd like to get to know more about her. probably a little bland but....we'll see. |
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Hey Drew,
new to the site, but what I find works best is compliment the picture, compliment the profile and let her know you have something in common. And in closing always, always wish well. |
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So you started a thread to gain advice and then you went generic and forgettable?
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So you started a thread to gain advice and then you went generic and forgettable? seemed like people were more interested in saying hello to kojack than in giving advice. no offense to kojack. could have been worse, i could've mentioned how pretty she was. |
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So you started a thread to gain advice and then you went generic and forgettable? seemed like people were more interested in saying hello to kojack than in giving advice. no offense to kojack. could have been worse, i could've mentioned how pretty she was. It only went to two pages. Geesh. |
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Edited by
74Drew
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Tue 03/03/09 09:58 AM
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besides,
hey goodlooking, whats cooking "hello, my name is __________ and i got herpies. lets chat" didn't seem like viable options. |
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Hi! My name is ___________ and I'm very pleased to meet you. You certainly have an outstanding profile. You've led an intresting life. By the way, nice rack...
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I have mailed my matches... I am just myself. I tell them I'm mailing because we matched, and then I tell them why I clicked on yes. I then say some things that aren't in my profile... and say I hope to hear back from them. I usually hear back, ummm 25-40% of the time, depending. hah. Last time I emailed all my mutual matches, I heard back from one. So, I deleted them all. |
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It happens.... I might mail four and hear back from one. Or mail four and hear back from four, or none.
It just varies. But it's not like much happens... here I am in a sticky situation where I'm obviously a fvcktard myself.... |
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sometimes they reply sometimes they don't. Doesn't ruin my day, I move on and keep searching
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good conversation starter..."How big is your...bank account?" be seeing you
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so the spark plug thing is pretty good. i just wrote to her and basically said that i'd like to get to know more about her. probably a little bland but....we'll see. Hey, If sparkplugs aint her thing, Ask her if she wants to help you move. That's always a popular conversation starter. |
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