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I think BigGlen has the best answer hello everybody ![]() ![]() doin good Kojack you? Told ya. ![]() |
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what are some good conversation starters? "hello, my name is __________ and i got herpies. lets chat" |
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what are some good conversation starters? hey goodlooking, whats cooking ![]() |
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I agree with what Carebear and Kojack originally said. Also, if she is a forum poster, you might reference something she asked about or commented on.
Best of luck to you, I hope it works out. ![]() |
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why change when you have chosen the perfect one Sometimes i get tired of same picture so go to a diff one |
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I have mailed my matches... I am just myself. I tell them I'm mailing because we matched, and then I tell them why I clicked on yes. I then say some things that aren't in my profile... and say I hope to hear back from them.
I usually hear back, ummm 25-40% of the time, depending. |
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what are some good conversation starters? Hi... How did this happen? I mean you're 26 and in California, why did you match with a 50 year old guy in Michigan??? True story, only she was 19. |
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I agree with lilith
![]() Can't be no one except urself ![]() |
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so the spark plug thing is pretty good.
i just wrote to her and basically said that i'd like to get to know more about her. probably a little bland but....we'll see. |
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Hey Drew,
new to the site, but what I find works best is compliment the picture, compliment the profile and let her know you have something in common. And in closing always, always wish well. |
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So you started a thread to gain advice and then you went generic and forgettable?
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So you started a thread to gain advice and then you went generic and forgettable? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() seemed like people were more interested in saying hello to kojack than in giving advice. no offense to kojack. could have been worse, i could've mentioned how pretty she was. |
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So you started a thread to gain advice and then you went generic and forgettable? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() seemed like people were more interested in saying hello to kojack than in giving advice. no offense to kojack. could have been worse, i could've mentioned how pretty she was. It only went to two pages. Geesh. |
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Edited by
74Drew
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Tue 03/03/09 09:58 AM
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besides,
hey goodlooking, whats cooking ![]() "hello, my name is __________ and i got herpies. lets chat" didn't seem like viable options. |
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Hi! My name is ___________ and I'm very pleased to meet you. You certainly have an outstanding profile. You've led an intresting life. By the way, nice rack...
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I have mailed my matches... I am just myself. I tell them I'm mailing because we matched, and then I tell them why I clicked on yes. I then say some things that aren't in my profile... and say I hope to hear back from them. I usually hear back, ummm 25-40% of the time, depending. hah. Last time I emailed all my mutual matches, I heard back from one. So, I deleted them all. |
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It happens.... I might mail four and hear back from one. Or mail four and hear back from four, or none.
It just varies. But it's not like much happens... here I am in a sticky situation where I'm obviously a fvcktard myself.... |
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sometimes they reply sometimes they don't. Doesn't ruin my day, I move on and keep searching
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so the spark plug thing is pretty good. i just wrote to her and basically said that i'd like to get to know more about her. probably a little bland but....we'll see. Hey, If sparkplugs aint her thing, Ask her if she wants to help you move. That's always a popular conversation starter. |
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