It's okay. You were probably born that way.

Stop distracting me. Back to the topic at hand. Where are Lex, Music and Loo when I need them.

sorry, i've been bad. i need a spanking.

*trying to slow her breathing* You are only teasing me because I'm trying to be serious. You don't want to start something you can't finish handsome. Now, people back to the topic at hand.

Baby of the family had 1 brother 1 sister 3 step sisters...And from an early age 8 or 9 I knew I was different couldn't accept authority or just follow the rules that are meant for you. I had to be different.!!!!!! And to this day I am. I don't accept things as is. I inquire, research things. I am totally different then anyone in my family. I have learned that I am not a sheep. But also anti social, I just don't like people to much anymore. They are mean spiteful and hurtful. To their own families and others. Found this out when I was 14 btw. SO.. does birth order or how you were brought up make a real difference? I don't think so.Its up to the individual to make decisions as warrants.

I think genetics play a larger role than upbringing. But, that's just my personal opinion.

I agree.

i've pretty much been the same person my whole life i just had to make a few changes cause of my son

Were they easy to make? I find I can do things for my kids, I never thought I could do for myself.

i've been making small changes from time to time. the hardest changes are the mental one.

Truer words were never spoken.

I love deep,,,lol. I had seven siblings, all half blooded.
I was raised with three, two sisters and one brother.

We four shared the same mother. Me and my brother were very different on the surface but many ways alike at heart. There is a eight year difference in our ages to...

Genetics will have similar appearances, but I don't believe they have any or much to do with one's personality, brain function yes,,degree of intelligence, yes...but in cloning WE have not mastered the ability to turn ones copy into THAT SAME persons mind and mental reasoning
and personality..

Otherwise we could just mass produce great minds as clones and have 100 Einsteins working on our world problems 15 years after their births..

I have questioned my family and my friends on this question,"do you ever try and invent or think to change anything you use or have seen?" And ALL my siblings said no...most my friends have said ,no,,,But I have been that way my entire life, always THINKING of ways to change or make it in my mind..

And its THAT 'thinking process' that I think also controls one's inner thoughts to guide them through all of their senses to view others and opinions, their ability to GROW and change from birth
to adulthood,,,but a persons learning through society and their surroundings and their parenting skills of their parents.
ALL have factors to cause change in a child, and some may pass, and some will never leave them.

So an easy answer I don't think your find.

A rich child growing in their world,,,,,and a poor child growing in their world....although both attending the same schools and same teachers their whole life will be like day and night difference
in their own interests, and abilities to see and feel life around them. Both with a different sense of VIEWING with-in their minds and that indifference will lead their personalities to become very different THINKERS and adults.
Thats my best for ya,,,wink,

LIVING LIFE, changes your sisters from you as to what each grew through socially and personally in their way of thinking and changing through their reasoning to view and self correct all through their lives,,,NONE of us THINK the exact same way...lol

My life experiences shaped who I am today

You always give your best and I appreciate it. Very insightful and honest.

yes pretty easy...just didn't think it would be just him and i ,then again not to many do when they first get married and have kids/kid.

Mirror, I was hoping you would drop by and thanks for the honesty.

physical changes, tat's and piercings, are easy. fixing your mental problems or willing yourself to do things can be incredibly challenging.

*gentle, platonic, kiss on the cheek* Me too.

Drew, my tat is just as much a part of me as my mind. An expression of my true self. But your point is valid, I could get it removed but can't lift my eyes from the floor.

You are welcome. I always try to post in your threads when I see them