Today I was awoken from my after work nap with a sappy romance movie on
TV, and It really had me wondering…
Why can’t real love and things we go through actually turn out like
stuff in the movies?
I mean it is so picture perfect and beautiful it almost brings tears to
my eyes. But it could never be. Or can it?
Everyday I wonder where the perfect one for me is. One minute I think I
found him and the next…I realize it really was not meant to be. And it
kills me inside.
Where is this so-called “Soul mate” or the “Mister Wonderful”? Do you
even exist dude? Well I haven’t met you yet if you do exist.

To be loved and to love someone as much back has got to be the most
fulfilling feeling I have ever endeavored. It feel’s like I am
literally floating on clouds. My whole world will stop when that person
kisses me, touches me, or even looks me in my eyes. It has got to be my
most favorite emotion.
When I first realize that I care for a person, or love a person it just
feels so fresh and new and wonderful. Though after a while you get
comfortable with that person and realize that he/she isn’t exactly what
you thought. That has got to be one of the worst levels of a
relationship. Why can’t it feel fresh, new and wonderful all the time?
Is it because I still haven’t found the right person? Is it because I
don’t really know what love is? No! Can’t be. I’ve felt love…. I know
love. So where am I going wrong?
Maybe it will never be like in the movies. Maybe I’m living in a huge
fantasy. Maybe not. Maybe So.

What I do know is, I know he is out there somewhere. I hope anyway…

It is never like the movies
Thay's why it is called LIFE

Well if you would have read my entire posting you would understand where
I was coming from. I know the difference between life and not...come on
.

OLDSAGE said it best.

Besides look at you oldsage. On a dating website with gray hair.
Wow...Sure look like you are going far in LIFE with your romantic ways.

You should show some respect. cass

He gives me respect... and he gets it in return. It is 2-sided.

did read it, still same answer

LIFE

Why can't a girl dream while she is away from the hectic life. Since
when was dreaming a crime? Last I checked it was perfectley okay to
type what was on my mind and share with others.

Dear I do just fine.
Some day you'll inderstand what I mean.
Enjoy LIFE

I keep pinching myself...If this is a dream I dont wanna wake up

I do respect your opinion
More ladies than you think like silver hair.

You should show Sage some respect...He is absolutely right....

Love is hard work...It does not come easy...You both have to work at
it...

Hey, Sage, Darlin.. How are you hun???

See! My point exactly! You rock Twilight. You understand where I was
coming from no?

I said it once and I will say it again. Respect is a 2-sided thing. He
shows me respect and he will get it in return.

My dear Cass, sage always shows upmost respect to all the ladies and
even gentleman on here. I did not see anywhere on this thread that he
wasn't showing you respect. He merely voiced his opinion to what to your
post saying that life is not like the movies...it never is.

Why can’t real love and things we go through actually turn out like
stuff in the movies?

I think it is because they are very good actors and actresses that read
from good scripts.

Where is this so-called “Soul mate” or the “Mister Wonderful”?

I think he is in a good book. I have read many myself and remember
falling in love with Becky from "Huckleberry Finn" and Alice from "Alice
In Wonderland".

Why can’t it feel fresh, new and wonderful all the time?

Because it gets old. If there was a way to refresh it that might be
different.

Is it because I still haven’t found the right person?

That might be true.

Is it because I don’t really know what love is?

Excellent question.

Maybe I’m living in a huge fantasy. Maybe not. Maybe So.

I love fantasy. So much more nicer than reality, sometimes.

You’re only 21 years old and you’re worried about not having found your
life mate yet?

I'm at a loss for words.

shenadra, she is young & time will educate her.
Nothing but respect for you Cassandra

((((((((Sage)))))))) You are the best!!!!!