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Topic: A man taking care of his child
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 04/08/09 05:51 PM
sexy or not? sexy some what! very touching yes I have recently got involved with someone from here which has been a single father (wife past away)of two beautiful daughters (which are teenagers now and he got them at a very young age and they still are living with him) for many years ,and seeing them together is one of the most touching things i have ever seen or felt I envey them,there is nothing that man wouldn't do for those kids ( he has posted here aswell Shadow65), i myself have the darkerside of some men I have a child 4year old daughter & my life and i'm divorced but my exhusband dosen't want anything to do with me and takes it out on my child which is sad! you always hope that the person you have children with will always be there for you and they're children but oh to often thats not the case as baabs said some are good with they're kids and jerks to everyone else is true ,but thats ok aslong as they're main focus is they're children ,I could deal with my ex hating me however it hurts to see him take it out on our little one which all they want is love from both parents ALL SAID AND DONE This is the topic whether it be man or woman both sexes have the abilities to either be a good parent or a bad one !it is what make that person whom they are!!!! From where i stand to all you fathers that are in your childrens lifes whether it's visitation or having them Never stop fighting for them !! GOD BLESS YOU! live for each day with them like its your last! they are what make us whom we are!& in some cases those kids my be what saves you from yourselves

Def03 Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 910	Wed 04/08/09 06:09 PM
I dont think its sexy, Im way not sexy when im in "Mom" mode. I am more understand to a single dad then a man that doesnt. I expect more from a man that doesnt then a man that does. I understand that its very hard to find a babysitter

Destin2gocrazy Joined Fri 11/23/07 Posts: 156	Wed 04/08/09 07:27 PM
is that WHY he wants the kids for the summer??

SoftballDoc Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 1	Fri 04/10/09 08:22 AM
Actually, there are quite a few of us that take care of our children, willingly. Unfortunately, we don't the recognition d/t the knuckleheads. But I'm proud to be one of those dads who has a GREAT relationship with his children. Keep up the good work fellas!

Miss_No_So Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 171	Fri 04/10/09 09:41 AM
YES! YES! But I think a man would be even sexier if I could see him give birth to his children

MzTewSweet Joined Fri 04/10/09 Posts: 4	Fri 04/10/09 06:41 PM
A man taking care of his children is a reflection of his character. It shows that he takes care of his responsibilites and is capable of loving/caring for someone other than himself. But on the other hand he should do those things anyway so if doing what you are supposed to do is sexy then i guess it's sexy.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 05/04/09 03:59 PM
YES! YES! But I think a man would be even sexier if I could see him give birth to his children

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Mon 05/04/09 04:14 PM
The world is geared more for single mom's and kids. You don't often see single dads with full custody and trying to be mom and dad. For some reason, I always have a higher opinion of single dad's. Which is probably the reason I've been burned badly by single dad's twice. They really have just the same likelihood of being rotten as any other guy. I know only one and he is pretty rotten. Oddly, he wasn't that way before he became a single dad.

Kuuleinani Joined Sat 04/11/09 Posts: 173	Mon 05/04/09 04:24 PM
Yes.....any guy can make a child but only a real man can raise them...this quality is unique because for me majority of the men I've watched in my life feel its the womens place and all they need to do is go to work....But theres something about a man that is willing to step up to the plate and actually participate in his childs life that is a complete turn on....And I don't mean the men that grab their kids and hang out to get attention from women, I see it happen all the time, but I mean the ones who are really there for the kids.

shortnskinny Joined Sun 03/08/09 Posts: 92	Wed 05/06/09 09:48 AM
YES! YES! But I think a man would be even sexier if I could see him give birth to his children thats f'ed up

shortnskinny Joined Sun 03/08/09 Posts: 92	Wed 05/06/09 09:51 AM
I've been doin it for years,never thought it might be considered sexy. I'm goin to take her to the grocery store with me more often!

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Mon 05/11/09 02:02 PM
I don't think I would call being a responsible father sexy but yes it does endear me to the Dad on other levels. Unless the child is grown and chroniclly refuses to provide his/her own necessities such a rent, food, gas, car, and basic furnishings by sustaining at least a full time job. I am not about to deal with a situation where a man defines being a parent as setting on his can and letting adult children being over grown brats that wear him out. Please note this does not include an adult child who is recovering from a crisis not of their making or fleeing a recently abusive situation. Famiies are suppose to help but if a guy expects me to put up with unending drama/poverty because he refuses to put his foot down he has lost his mind.

soloplustwo Joined Mon 05/11/09 Posts: 141	Wed 05/13/09 05:02 PM
well i have two of my own i wish i could have full custody, there mother isnt very stable , its not right that my son see his mom on top of another man naked, once is an oops more then that there is a problem and its happend more then once, im so scared to damage my kids they are my world and life i dont take women around them at all, because of that reason, i was with her for 7 years highschool sweethearts if that didnt work out what will?