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Topic: Why do you think you can't find anyone
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Tue 02/24/09 10:53 AM
Why do you think you can't find anyone serious here on Mingle2?

Do you think you need to change something of yourself or is it just that you don't have any luck at all?

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Tue 02/24/09 10:54 AM
A distinct lack of luck on my part.

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Tue 02/24/09 10:54 AM
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Tue 02/24/09 10:57 AM

Why do you think you can't find anyone serious here on Mingle2?

Do you think you need to change something of yourself or is it just that you don't have any luck at all?




bigsmile No problems finding anyone.flowerforyou

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Tue 02/24/09 10:58 AM

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Ohhh, easier to give oral. Hiya hot stuff....

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Tue 02/24/09 10:58 AM

Why do you think you can't find anyone serious here on Mingle2?

Do you think you need to change something of yourself or is it just that you don't have any luck at all?


I'm not looking.

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Tue 02/24/09 10:59 AM


ohwell Small penisohwell


Ohhh, easier to give oral. Hiya hot stuff....



:wink:

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Tue 02/24/09 11:01 AM

Why do you think you can't find anyone serious here on Mingle2?

Do you think you need to change something of yourself or is it just that you don't have any luck at all?


I think there are several factors involved:

1.) Although there are a large number of realtively local people on the site, they don't participate here in any meaningful way. I never see anyone in the forums, for example, who would be close enough to spend time with on any kind of regular basis.

2.) I rarely see anyone here who doesn't have kids.

3.) I rarely see anyone here who doesn't drink.

4.) Literacy, intellect, and creativity are important to me.

5.) Dating sites, unless they are extremely specialized, tend to attract people who are looking for something more mainstream than what I'm looking for. The "broad-based appeal" is a smart move for a site that seeks an ever-growing membership, but also homogenizes the resultant user pool.






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Tue 02/24/09 11:03 AM
no i am perfect just the way i am, i have found that if you say it it will come true!!!

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Tue 02/24/09 11:03 AM
I think I have a problem with red flags and men. I run as soon as I see the slightest issue that could be dangerous for me or my child. I guess meeting someone isn't the issue. As you well know about me, it's finding the right one.

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Tue 02/24/09 11:04 AM
Just haven't had much luck with anyone close enough.

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Tue 02/24/09 11:06 AM


Why do you think you can't find anyone serious here on Mingle2?

Do you think you need to change something of yourself or is it just that you don't have any luck at all?


I think there are several factors involved:

1.) Although there are a large number of realtively local people on the site, they don't participate here in any meaningful way. I never see anyone in the forums, for example, who would be close enough to spend time with on any kind of regular basis.

2.) I rarely see anyone here who doesn't have kids.

3.) I rarely see anyone here who doesn't drink.

4.) Literacy, intellect, and creativity are important to me.

5.) Dating sites, unless they are extremely specialized, tend to attract people who are looking for something more mainstream than what I'm looking for. The "broad-based appeal" is a smart move for a site that seeks an ever-growing membership, but also homogenizes the resultant user pool.








Well a better answer one couldn't find, but yes I can imagine that many on here (including me) are just here for some chats.

Perhaps it can be split in half this site somehow. One for the chats and the other sister site for the serious daters.

I don't know it is just a silly thought.

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Tue 02/24/09 11:07 AM

I think I have a problem with red flags and men. I run as soon as I see the slightest issue that could be dangerous for me or my child. I guess meeting someone isn't the issue. As you well know about me, it's finding the right one.


Considering what you went through already in life one can only understand why you put up 'red flags' and rightfully so.

I do think you will find someone though.drinker

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Tue 02/24/09 11:08 AM
I bring the ones I've found here...pitchfork

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Tue 02/24/09 11:09 AM


I think I have a problem with red flags and men. I run as soon as I see the slightest issue that could be dangerous for me or my child. I guess meeting someone isn't the issue. As you well know about me, it's finding the right one.


Considering what you went through already in life one can only understand why you put up 'red flags' and rightfully so.

I do think you will find someone though.drinker



True thatbrokenheart

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Tue 02/24/09 11:12 AM
Edited by TristanBru on Tue 02/24/09 11:12 AM

Why do you think you can't find anyone serious here on Mingle2?

Do you think you need to change something of yourself or is it just that you don't have any luck at all?
For some reason all the good one's live out of town.

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Tue 02/24/09 11:14 AM
prolly the fact that I already have a girlfriend scares em off

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Tue 02/24/09 11:16 AM

prolly the fact that I already have a girlfriend scares em off
laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 02/24/09 11:22 AM
the guys i've met in person on here were waaaaaay too serious...i just like chit chatting w/everyone in the forums...

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Tue 02/24/09 11:47 AM


Why do you think you can't find anyone serious here on Mingle2?

Do you think you need to change something of yourself or is it just that you don't have any luck at all?
For some reason all the good one's live out of town.


i find that to be true also, i cant find anyone in the 4th largest city in america

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