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Topic: Date someone who smokes?
Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Sun 02/22/09 04:28 PM
It would be hypocritical to say "no" since I do smoke. Even when I did not smoke it wasn't an issue. Planning on joining the reformed smokers group again.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Sun 02/22/09 05:55 PM
I have a question for all those who said they didn't want to "lick or kiss an ashtray": What is your basis for comparison? How many ashtrays have you licked or kissed? Omg, that was just too good had me rolling shshshh I'm and ex smoker quit 6 years ago this last Jan went cold turkey from 3 packs a day. They say ex smokers are worst then anyone to be around if in fact one still smokes. Hummm I will admit now no one smokes in my house or car. But I feel they will comply with that out of respect of my wishes. But would I turn my back on another just because they smoke hummm NOt and if they choose to smoke in their house or vehicle then all I ask if in a vehicle roll that window down some and have some ceiling fans on in the house to keep the air circulation going. But since I was and ex smoker hummmm I resent being thought of as and ashtray I mean heck they do have breath mints and gum if they smoke hey grab yourself a breath mint and offer them one as well. lol Solves that problem

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sun 02/22/09 06:02 PM
Not only no, but hell no!!

lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Sun 02/22/09 06:06 PM
Most smokers have the courtesy of NOT smoking around non-smokers and use breath mints and gum to alleviate their habit of non-smokers. please get off your pompous stance and experience life already people! Besides, if you are worthy, that person may consider breaking the habit and become more healthy. THINK ABOUT IT FOR A MOMENT!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 02/22/09 06:09 PM
I have a question for all those who said they didn't want to "lick or kiss an ashtray": What is your basis for comparison? How many ashtrays have you licked or kissed? I was waiting for someone to say this

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sun 02/22/09 06:12 PM
THINK ABOUT IT FOR A MOMENT! okay... I'm done nope I'm still gonna smoke without regard whether you like it or not

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sun 02/22/09 06:25 PM
It wouldn't bother me. I used to smoke.

lil_bit Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1685	Sun 02/22/09 06:27 PM Edited by lil_bit on Sun 02/22/09 06:28 PM
THINK ABOUT IT FOR A MOMENT! okay... I'm done nope I'm still gonna smoke without regard whether you like it or not I'm a smoker silly...that is why I defended...guessed you didn't git it...oh well

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Sun 02/22/09 06:30 PM
hey i've been with some women that give some smokin ...fellatio

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sun 02/22/09 07:24 PM Edited by MelodyGirl on Sun 02/22/09 07:26 PM
Most smokers have the courtesy of NOT smoking around non-smokers and use breath mints and gum to alleviate their habit of non-smokers. please get off your pompous stance and experience life already people! Besides, if you are worthy, that person may consider breaking the habit and become more healthy. THINK ABOUT IT FOR A MOMENT! I don't think that people are necessarily grandiloquent in nature because they won't date a smoker. I think it's more about lifestyle, the possibility their life will be cut short, and compatibility. I won't address the stench in clothing, hair, etc. Breath mints are not that effective, but on a larger scale, smokers are not as athletic. I like dating someone that will take a 50 mile bike ride with me or compete in an adventure race, etc. I don't want to hear the hacking up of phlem either. I also want to know my parter is healthy and will be around for a long time. No one is right or wrong; we are just different. Melody

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sun 02/22/09 07:28 PM
Most smokers have the courtesy of NOT smoking around non-smokers and use breath mints and gum to alleviate their habit of non-smokers. please get off your pompous stance and experience life already people! Besides, if you are worthy, that person may consider breaking the habit and become more healthy. THINK ABOUT IT FOR A MOMENT! I don't think that people are necessarily grandiloquent in nature because they won't date a smoker. I think it's more about lifestyle, the possibility their life will be cut short, and compatibility. I won't address the stench in clothing, hair, etc. Breath mints are not that effective, but on a larger scale, smokers are not as athletic. I like dating someone that will take a 50 mile bike ride with me or compete in an adventure race, etc. I don't want to hear the hacking up of phlem either. I also want to know my parter is healthy and will be around for a long time. No one is right or wrong; we are just different. Melody So if you're healthy as a horse, you won't get hit by a bus while crossing the street? "Being around for a long time" is completely subjective, and totally not up to any of us when the button is pushed.

quiet_2008 Joined Sat 08/30/08 Posts: 11138	Sun 02/22/09 07:30 PM
THINK ABOUT IT FOR A MOMENT! okay... I'm done nope I'm still gonna smoke without regard whether you like it or not I'm a smoker silly...that is why I defended...guessed you didn't git it...oh well oh sorry never mind

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sun 02/22/09 07:31 PM
Sure, I smoke as well...could be one of the few commonalities in the relationship.

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Sun 02/22/09 07:35 PM
sure would....im a smoker !

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sun 02/22/09 07:39 PM Edited by MelodyGirl on Sun 02/22/09 07:40 PM
Most smokers have the courtesy of NOT smoking around non-smokers and use breath mints and gum to alleviate their habit of non-smokers. please get off your pompous stance and experience life already people! Besides, if you are worthy, that person may consider breaking the habit and become more healthy. THINK ABOUT IT FOR A MOMENT! I don't think that people are necessarily grandiloquent in nature because they won't date a smoker. I think it's more about lifestyle, the possibility their life will be cut short, and compatibility. I won't address the stench in clothing, hair, etc. Breath mints are not that effective, but on a larger scale, smokers are not as athletic. I like dating someone that will take a 50 mile bike ride with me or compete in an adventure race, etc. I don't want to hear the hacking up of phlem either. I also want to know my parter is healthy and will be around for a long time. No one is right or wrong; we are just different. Melody So if you're healthy as a horse, you won't get hit by a bus while crossing the street? "Being around for a long time" is completely subjective, and totally not up to any of us when the button is pushed. Oh good gawd, I am not saying something else can't take us out -- but at least avoid the things that are guaranteed to take us out. I'm not thinking that narrow mindedly. Keep my answer in total concept. I addressed more than just life span.

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Sun 02/22/09 07:41 PM
Would you date someone who smokes? definately...

samanthalynn2011 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 71	Sun 02/22/09 07:58 PM
yeah i smoke cigs on occasion i dont do pot tho anymore but if some does it on occasion its ok

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sun 02/22/09 08:06 PM
Oh good gawd, I am not saying something else can't take us out -- but at least avoid the things that are guaranteed to take us out. I'm not thinking that narrow mindedly. Being a smoker is no more of a "guarantee of being taken out" any more than scrubbing out a toilet or washing clothes.