Topic: What do women find attractive about a man?
Dragoness's photo
Sat 02/21/09 10:44 PM



In my experience, the thing they find most attractive is the idea of turning him into the complete opposite of what he is....it's like some kind of project that they get extra credit for....


I agree Lex, this is a problem with women. They consider him a project. I have been guilty of same. I learned now though that I must take him at face value. We have to accept good with bad and if he (in her opinion) has too much bad or undesireable than she needs to leave him alone instead of making he and she miserable trying to get another man out of the one she picked.


You know, that seems so inherently self-evident to me, and obviously you've reached the same conclusion....but almost everyone I've ever been with has had the idea that the crux of the relationship revolves around her trying to change me into a farm animal. I still can't fathom the rationale behind this!





A farm animal? lol Well I don't think I went that far but I always figured they were rough around the edges because they did not have a woman to soften the edges or they partied too much but after they had a woman to love them that would stop, not happening...lol If he parties too much for ya, leave him alone. If he watches too much sports for ya, leave him alone. If he likes his bachelorhood too much and you are ready to settle down, leave him alone.

And don't give me the excuse "but I love him", obviously you do not love him enough because you want to change him into something else.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 02/21/09 10:45 PM
That cruchy corn chip smell

Shannonface's photo
Sat 02/21/09 10:45 PM
And thank you, vincent. Yes, I like to illustrate my points using words, which usually ends up being a length paragraph. :P

darkowl1's photo
Sat 02/21/09 10:48 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Sat 02/21/09 10:48 PM

And thank you, vincent. Yes, I like to illustrate my points using words, which usually ends up being a length paragraph. :P



well, you're smart......................................................................and you can type fastdrinker drinker laugh laugh

coolguy15's photo
Sat 02/21/09 10:51 PM
You two need to hook up.

Shannonface's photo
Sat 02/21/09 10:59 PM
I went to school for data entry, so, yea, i can usually type over 60wpm. Job market right now blows though, so, im a waitress instead! Yay me! Thank you, and you seem intelligent as well. :P

darkowl1's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:02 PM
Edited by darkowl1 on Sat 02/21/09 11:09 PM

You two need to hook up.


coolguy, i'm so old and hidious and i'll have the friends that will have me, but ltr's are not for me. i hope you find what you're looking for on here, for you have the desire to learn, morph and change, and that is the key to being successful in long-life journeys, so stay positive, and be you, and study your decisions. sincerely, vincent~

she's rather amazing though, i must say, damn! almost painfully beautiful.....

darkowl1's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:08 PM

I went to school for data entry, so, yea, i can usually type over 60wpm. Job market right now blows though, so, im a waitress instead! Yay me! Thank you, and you seem intelligent as well. :P



hmmmm.......seem........seem is the majik word. i'm really the reincarnation of curly of the three stooges, i swear! if you heard me talk, i sound just like him. people think i'm jaggin on the phone doing immitations and stuff.......go figure.spock rofl rofl frustrated

katrina_4888's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:16 PM
physically? or personality-wise?

coolguy15's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:16 PM
Well you never know where you shall find true love.

Shannonface's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:19 PM
Well, I'm not entirely sure if you are what you say you are, but, I do think you're intelligent. :) And yea...I'm not exceedingly thrilled about the prospect of another failed relationship, that's why I put looking for dating for now. And, again, thank you for the compliment, lol.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:24 PM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Sat 02/21/09 11:24 PM
When I walk into a room and lick my eyebrows...."that" seems to get a positive response.??????? I dunno

coolguy15's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:24 PM
Shannon you need to become a writer. You already exhibit alot of passion into it. Why not make it a living?

Shannonface's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:30 PM
Sadly, more often than not, writers who have a passion for writing and use it to earn a living usually don't get to write about what they want to write about. I prefer to keep that part of me for myself. I've written some poems and whatnot, I guess I could try to write a book or something at some point. But, yea, realistically, being a new writer is crappy pay and passionless.

coolguy15's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:35 PM
Tell that to Steven King.

coolguy15's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:42 PM
Thank you Vincent~. Don't ever give up hope to find true love.

Tanzkity's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:53 PM
Their bank accounts

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 02/21/09 11:56 PM

Their bank accounts



It's so nice to hear that you won't stand for a morally bankrupt man Tanz.laugh flowerforyou

speedbug72's photo
Sun 02/22/09 12:02 AM
i know there r a few out there that like the wild ones.

p.s i figured out how to host chocolate wrestling it was hot erlier at my friends house in the garage we got quite a few girls out tonight, and the alchohol selection was decent.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 02/22/09 12:04 AM
When they can pee off of the diving board and tell you how cold the pool is?