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Topic: So if you sleep with a man on the SECOND date...
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Fri 02/20/09 06:26 PM
Not looking to score on the first date, or the second date either.
And if its good, I l'd like some more please.
But is has happened to me.

cherrySOlovely's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:26 PM
just wait 2 get intimate be4 u get 2 deep. intense relationships end early. ~_~

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Fri 02/20/09 06:27 PM
Who cares? Either he likes you or he doesn't. Do what you want and if he doesn't like you for it, you're better off without him.

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Fri 02/20/09 06:28 PM


will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL



I SO hate this double-standard...grumble

I don't make a habit of sleeping on the first, second, third dates and possibly not the 4th or 5th either, but....I'm so far past the 'will ya respect me in the morning thing' If there's chemistry and an undeniable mutual desire, we're adults, not in high school, let's seize the moment.


Exactly. :thumbsup:

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Fri 02/20/09 06:28 PM
If I think enough of you to sleep with you I will definately call whether its a first or fifteenth date...

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Fri 02/20/09 06:29 PM

Poetrywriter's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:32 PM
Wonder if I can switch the 1st and 2nd dates around??

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Fri 02/20/09 06:43 PM


will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL



I SO hate this double-standard...grumble

I don't make a habit of sleeping on the first, second, third dates and possibly not the 4th or 5th either, but....I'm so far past the 'will ya respect me in the morning thing' If there's chemistry and an undeniable mutual desire, we're adults, not in high school, let's seize the moment.



Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh girl I must agree with you on this one for hell I'm not getting any younger and at this age I know what appeals to me and if and when it seems right why should we not in fact partake of the moment.:thumbsup:

If two adults can feel the chemistry and it is in fact there and it happens why is it that some guys think just because a woman knows what she wants and goes after it she is any less of a person to be with. slaphead

This is so like the 60's it hurts.spock Not saying it always happens for it don't but at times when you meet someone if the chemistry is instantly there as if you have always been around each other and everything just seems to fall in place. smitten

Sure there are times you go out a few times to get to know each other for at times it takes time to get to know others.

But there are those rare and wonderful moments when two people just seem to fit together from the first hello as you look into their eyes'sdrool

Does not mean it will always work out but still one should judge a woman for knowing what she wants and the ambition to in fact go with the moment. One could loose out being with a really great person.

Besides if women were to judge men in this same way then hummmmmmmm who would they be withslaphead :thumbsup: bigsmile for most men do tend to sow their oats as some would put it and have plenty of just sex just for the sex.

We are not talking about jumping in the bed with just anyone just for the sexually part.noway We are talking when the feelings between two people are in fact strong enough and both admit the chemistry is definitely there. bigsmile

As we age we do see things in a different perspective and when you get older you do know what you want and don't want. And can see things about others much sooner then you did when you were younger. At least I feel this is true.

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Fri 02/20/09 06:45 PM
its happened to me twice the first time..he just dissapeared and the second time//even thought we didnt even go that far he completley didnt even speak to me after he left. :(

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Fri 02/20/09 06:48 PM
congratulations dear you met two fools

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Fri 02/20/09 06:49 PM
But there are those rare and wonderful moments when two people just seem to fit together from the first hello as you look into their eyes's


You said it so much more beautifully than I did it! flowerforyou

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Fri 02/20/09 06:56 PM


will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL


What about if you sleep with him on the 25 th date and you find out that he is not damn good ?frustrated frustrated frustrated
Would you feel sorry for all the time you waste it ?laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


25th date?? By that time I'd start wonder if there was something wrong with one of us!! noway There has to be a strong attraction if there is even going to be a 25th date and if there is a strong attraction, I'm not waitin' 'til the 25th date!:tongue:

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Fri 02/20/09 07:24 PM

But there are those rare and wonderful moments when two people just seem to fit together from the first hello as you look into their eyes's


You said it so much more beautifully than I did it! flowerforyou



blushing Believe me those moments are far and few between with those that when you look into their eyes you loose all sense of time and reality. Just one brush of their lips across yours seems to make your knees go weak as the fires deep within begin to ignite. hummmmmmmmmmmmm ohhh hell ya drool gawd it has been wayyyyyyyyyyyy tooo long!!!slaphead


Humm I need to go back to reading and get my mind other places lol:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Fri 02/20/09 07:27 PM


But there are those rare and wonderful moments when two people just seem to fit together from the first hello as you look into their eyes's


You said it so much more beautifully than I did it! flowerforyou



blushing Believe me those moments are far and few between with those that when you look into their eyes you loose all sense of time and reality. Just one brush of their lips across yours seems to make your knees go weak as the fires deep within begin to ignite. hummmmmmmmmmmmm ohhh hell ya drool gawd it has been wayyyyyyyyyyyy tooo long!!!slaphead


Humm I need to go back to reading and get my mind other places lol:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:



Yeah...*sigh*

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Fri 02/20/09 07:28 PM
if i like the woman it does not matter when it happens i will call her and ask her out again . although i have never had sex on the first date . it's kinda a rule

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