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Topic: Ok, you're out on a date and very interested
Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 02/14/09 04:18 PM
in the person. The feeling seems mutual. Do you make the first move or wait for the other person to make it?

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sat 02/14/09 04:20 PM
I consult Mutual Match first..... then I consult..... Pats............

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 02/14/09 04:21 PM
I consult Mutual Match first..... then I consult..... Pats............ good man, Pats is the MM Master!

njmom05 Joined Mon 04/23/07 Posts: 5867	Sat 02/14/09 04:21 PM
I have made the first move in the past. We met at a restaurant for lunch. We had a great time, chatted about everything under the sun. We agreed while waiting for the check to see each other again. Once we got out in the parking lot I asked him for a hug, then once we were hugging he looked at me and I stole a little kiss. He said he wanted to but wasn't sure if he should so quickly.

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Sat 02/14/09 04:21 PM
I have a Magic 8 Ball for that very purpose!

Urg04es Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 1411	Sat 02/14/09 04:22 PM
I would make the move as far as holding hands but a kiss they will have to go for.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 02/14/09 04:22 PM
I used to always be the one to make the first move. If I liked someone I let them know. Not so much anymore. Now I will wait.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 02/14/09 04:22 PM
For a pushy broad you aren't going to believe it but I really wait for the guy to make that kind of move.

MickyG Joined Sat 02/07/09 Posts: 791	Sat 02/14/09 04:22 PM
Well if the feelings seem mutual then the party has probably already made some sort of move, so yes I would make a move

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 02/14/09 04:23 PM
in the person. The feeling seems mutual. Do you make the first move or wait for the other person to make it? I just behave normally and dont worry about making moves

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sat 02/14/09 04:24 PM
I do whatever it takes to screw it up

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 02/14/09 04:27 PM
I do whatever it takes to screw it up

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21824	Sat 02/14/09 04:27 PM
What's a date????

challengingmind Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 563	Sat 02/14/09 04:28 PM
I want the man to make the first move that way there is no doubt he's interested.It also proves he's got the confidence and balls to do it.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sat 02/14/09 04:28 PM
"Well the old folks say that ya gotta end yer date by 10 and if your out on a date and ya bring her home late its a sin......." therefore .....I'm makin the first move around 7

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Sat 02/14/09 04:30 PM
"Well the old folks say that ya gotta end yer date by 10 and if your out on a date and ya bring her home late its a sin......." therefore .....I'm makin the first move around 7 old folks ???

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Sat 02/14/09 04:30 PM
would prefer things to happen naturaly

pkh Joined Sat 05/26/07 Posts: 14961	Sat 02/14/09 04:34 PM
It's been to long to remember.I'm old fashion,I wait

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 02/14/09 04:39 PM
I want the man to make the first move that way there is no doubt he's interested.It also proves he's got the confidence and balls to do it. I so agree with you there!

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Sat 02/14/09 04:41 PM
I TRY to wait, but I usually make the first move. As long as the feeling is mutual -- or that is the vibe I am getting -- then I just 'take him'! I know that can be a turn-off though ... sigh Melody