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Topic: I love you
Nova86 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 4547	Thu 02/12/09 12:24 PM
depends on how long we had known each other....maybe she was just saving and then blurted it out.....but if it is a new relationship or not even a relationship, it would kinda freak me out if i wasn't ready for it

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 02/12/09 12:27 PM
Those words have never "slipped" out of my mouth, and they never will.

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Thu 02/12/09 12:46 PM
Ahh David Ben.... Every time I hear that John Mayer song, Say What You Mean To Say song.... I think of you and your convoluted posts! wow!!! I LOVE THAT SONG!!! i am truly honored you think of me so often..... yes indeed, convoluted is as convoluted see..... perhaps a deep look into the heart of self to see why self deem all "not like self" as convoluted, would be in order dear one??? a sad state of "self bias" can actually hide the heart from itself???

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Thu 02/12/09 12:46 PM
Ahh David Ben.... Every time I hear that John Mayer song, Say What You Mean To Say song.... I think of you and your convoluted posts! Glad it's not just me. I'm pretty sure I'm borderline ADD and I have to admit I lose focus before I've read two sentences of his posts. DB, sorry man.... I'm just not able to clear my mind enough to absorb whatever it is you're saying.

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Thu 02/12/09 12:49 PM
"I love you" during sex only counts if it's already been sufficiently demonstrated and vocalized before. Otherwise it's just like those great ideas you get when you've been smokin' a little somethin'....

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Thu 02/12/09 12:50 PM
If you accidently say i love you during sex you could always say that you were talking to your penis

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Thu 02/12/09 12:50 PM
"I love you" during sex only counts if it's already been sufficiently demonstrated and vocalized before. Otherwise it's just like those great ideas you get when you've been smokin' a little somethin'.... it could be that you were holding back before and in the moment your true feelings come out

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 02/12/09 12:51 PM
Lets say you are having sex and the words I love you slip out [you haven't previously said them before]How do you react afterwords? Thank you?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 02/12/09 12:54 PM
"I love you" during sex only counts if it's already been sufficiently demonstrated and vocalized before. Otherwise it's just like those great ideas you get when you've been smokin' a little somethin'.... it could be that you were holding back before and in the moment your true feelings come out Thats right

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Thu 02/12/09 12:56 PM
Ahh David Ben.... Every time I hear that John Mayer song, Say What You Mean To Say song.... I think of you and your convoluted posts! Glad it's not just me. I'm pretty sure I'm borderline ADD and I have to admit I lose focus before I've read two sentences of his posts. DB, sorry man.... I'm just not able to clear my mind enough to absorb whatever it is you're saying. so your saying since you have found "validation" from another, of what self thought, this now tells self it is correct, now knowing reality, now seeing with true sight??? whoa, this is a terribly inferior way to access what be most real, most correct, most wisdom, most sanity??? why do you then apologize for a "stuffy brain" as you put it, that only recognize and decipher what is most like self??? to slooooooooow down and want to understand, come only from a need to understand, and is a good first start to absorbing more??? just ideas.....

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Thu 02/12/09 12:56 PM
I just really couldn't believe it coming from a person who only said it during sex.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 02/12/09 12:58 PM
Lets say you are having sex and the words I love you slip out [you haven't previously said them before]How do you react afterwords? It dont bother me any but what if they meant it? Then they meant it.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 02/12/09 12:59 PM
Fo Shizzle Dizzle!!! This happened to me... well it was said to me. I posted a huge thread about it. As for my reaction... I was stunned into silence, was kinda drunk and did not say anything. Then I acted like it never happened and he went along! That sounds pretty normal to me.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Thu 02/12/09 12:59 PM
I just really couldn't believe it coming from a person who only said it during sex. I was meaning the 1st time they said it during sex doesn't mean they wouldn't say it again

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Thu 02/12/09 01:02 PM
If I was being intimate I would have feelings already so saying the words I love youduring wouldn't surprise me If I feel it i'm saying it

Holly4459 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 34785	Thu 02/12/09 01:39 PM
I have said it during sex -and have had it said to me - so there were no surprises!

downhomechik Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 479	Thu 02/12/09 01:44 PM
ohhh.... I mean I love what we are doing.... ohhh....jeez, yeh.. take the silent route.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 02/22/09 11:15 AM


misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Sun 02/22/09 11:19 AM
actually I would be saying oh my god I love you so I could probaly play that off if I wanted

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 02/22/09 11:25 AM
actually I would be saying oh my god I love you so I could probaly play that off if I wanted probably