i had a woman on myspace tell me that she is worried that she might not be the one for me.

she wouldn't even take the time to get to know me.

wtf is that about?




i know, she's either lost interest or insecure.
i just felt like ranting.

Maybe she had enough information for her to be able to tell that you guys wouldn't be good for each other. That has nothing to do with being insecure.

Email her back and hit her up for an intimate encounter

you're right.
she probably lost interest.

i thought that that was where we were headed anyway. she had even said something about discussing an actual meeting. 2 weeks later, "i might not be the one for you."

if a few key indicators tell me a guy is not for me, i will have the courtesy to tell him...i wouldn't be "/worried/ that you /might/ not be the one," bc i would get enough information to know that you /were/ or /were not/ right for me. the words you repeat sound kinda wishy-washy and a cop out to me.
from what i can see you have two options: let it go, or go back and get that information.

good luck

p.s.-just looked at your key indicators on your profile-if u also have that on myspace, she prolly also feels like she's not going to measure up...you pretty much have your "perfect ideal woman" typed out there--good luck with that too.

Hard to get. Sometes girls like being persued. Know the dif between persiut and stalking/creeping.

Oh yeah that always works.....

Would you really want to be involved with someone who's on MySpace??

I mean, really....?

The woman read something that rubbed her the wrong way and/or is a dealbreaker for her.

Truth be told... well, you will never know the truth. You are strangers and owe each other nothing, including the truth. We can never know what is in the hearts and minds of others (I can't recall where that is from but I do think it's true).

She probably has a fake picture on her profile, when in reality she looks like the lady from "Throw Momma from the Train".

Myspace is nasty, you will find some weirdos over there

Drew.... I just read your profile. (The other post gave me pause to do so).

If you want to meet a woman.... rewrite that doll.

There are people over there made ENTIRELY of spam!

But most of them are just cardboard....

Cardboard ziplok bags and a lot of hot air.

And THEN you have Facebook!

Facebook is alot better than myspace, even though they are/were owned by myspace

Sounds like she needs to re-up on her prescription of Prozac.

2 WEEKS later? Well honestly, that seems quite a while for her to have given it a chance online.

You might have said some things that made her realize you two were really different and not a road she wanted to venture on in person.

I say better to know now eh?

yeah, well a man can dream can't he?

lol

i don't actually have that on there. idk what scared her off. not overly concerned about it. she live 3 states away anyway. it just irked me that she didn't even take the time to get to know me before saying something, IMO, unjustified.