What do you do if you feel you are undeserving of being in a relationship?

start a whiney thread on mingle.

figure out why you feel that way...self evaluation.
then change it..
its your god given right to be loved

I never feel that way, because I know no one is good enough for me

Thats certainly an option

I agree

Read plenty of books on Confidence Building

Slap yourself silly ---You are not unworthy.

Unworthy, who would think such a thing? And I am not about to apologize for being a man and going for it either.

After I broke my back last year I was kinda shaken up, after all I could have died in the accident that fractured that vertebrae.

I think this was something that contributed to me loosing a good deal of my confidence, perhaps also that I had been out of work had just got a good job and had just really got back to being fully active from my last big injury, then bam back to shambles.

It took me months of therapy, mostly physical, some introspection, some looking back on my life to see what I had done, to feel proud again.

I had to think about what was right with my life to really see how much I had let what was wrong pull me down.

I have no idea of any of this will be meaningful to you, but I found that the constant month after month of sliding backward, and the way that effected my thinking had ruined any chance of me seeing myself as worthy of good things in my life, at least for a time.

Perspective, its the hardest thing to get when its the most needed.

One of the biggest things that helped me feel better (about myself) was LOTS of exercise, and reading (exercise for the brain)

Take myself out to the back 40 somewhere and knock some sense into me. If I don't value myself who will???

I ignore that feeling entirely. It usually passes in 0.2 seconds.

Wake up....

A versatel machine.

If you love somebody, set them free. If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.

The future depends on what we do in the present.