Well thanks for insulting Ruth and I and then dropping it because you don't care that much.

beginners count and fools tell

That's why I asked if he had read it. I thought it was funny. RK is one of only two guys I have talked to on the phone from this site. He is no philanderer. He is a little strange though.

(He's knows I'm kidding and secretly in love with him)

Its an honest hole. Im not ashamed. I joined these forums for friendship and social contact.
If I met someone fine, if not, it wont be the end of my world. Im still dating.

Bragging not sure but......I do find it amazing that one would in fact own up to sleeping with 150 to this point in their life. And well since your life is not over that number will in fact rise since you have stated that you are not one to stay within a long term relationship.

Now if I was one that was interested in getting to know you then sure that information would kind of stick in the back of my mind. But the issue of the not being able to stay within a long term relationship would in fact be more of the issue to me. Not saying the amount of sexually partners would not in fact stand out.

But then most men/women are not truly honest with the amount of sexually partners or admitting one night stands. Therefore at least your honest about it.

In fact I have talked to several men that were just friends that well they as you did not have to chase the women they just seem to be there. And must say to be honest they all knew what in fact they were getting into and they did not expect anything more then the moment themselves.

You know I look at my son today he is 26 6'2 good built and good looking. And I don't say that just because he is my son his dad was very good looking and still is at 58. My son is one that he does not have to go looking for the women at all they seem to flock to him where ever he goes. Dose he in fact turn them down well sure there have been a few but very few if I see him with one this week I don't pay much attention to it for next week or even tomorrow it may be another one instead. So with that said I feel that when he reaches your age that he will be on up there in the numbers of sexually partners as well.

I actually take your post more of a statement asking for opinion instead of bragging.

For it takes guts to post your sexually life within these forums it is as if asking to be ate alive by the wolves.

You know we are the only ones in the end that must deal with what ever our choices are in life so as long as you can deal with your life then that is all that actually matters.

Why weren't you able to provide that? Just not looking for a long term relationship? Is it more fun for you to move from person to person?

forever is just to long for him. He's to scared to commit and stick with it.

the fact that we're discussing how many is too many just proves that there is something wrong with our mentality.

the sad fact is that if a man has too many partners women find it disgusting. if he has too few, he's inexperienced or there must be something wrong with him for no woman to sleep with him.
the only safe zone is to have been with a hand full of women so as to seem selective and yet desirable and learned.

talk about fickle.

men are easier to please. we prefer to not be with sluts. how few isn't important, only too many.

Actually, how many is irrelevant. It is the attitude that goes along with the number. The OP has basically identified himself as someone who is unable to commit and therefore, in my opinion, not a suitable date. You seem to have your whole identity wrapped up in your lack of sexual partners as you bring it up continually and you refer to women as sluts. That makes you undateable, in my book.

That is probably as close as any summation i could come up with myself. Thinking about it. Always looking for the greener grass. Never truly committing to forever.

I think you're giving us to much "credit" for being fickle.
I would much rather have a guy that's inexperienced and teachable than one that has slept for sooo many other women. Just because a guy is experienced, doesn't mean he's experieced with ME. I still have to learn things about him and he has to learn things about me. Likes, dislikes. Everyone is different.
I have never not dated someone based on so few a guy has had sex with. I have however not dated someone because of how many women he's had sex with.

Who counts????? I wonder how many apples Ive eaten in my life....

Well then now you know what areas you need to work on for youself. It's totally unfair to commit yourself to a woman when you know on the inside, you really can't. She believes that you are commited to her but really, you're not. That's not right.

Exactly. It really doesn't matter how many people someone sleeps with. Much of it is the attitude.

Yeah, but for some reason I just dont care at this point.
Not a beginer for sure. Foolish, probably. Honest, yep. Socially wrong to talk about it? Matter of opinion. Will it be my only mistake? Nah.

i feel the estrogen pouring out on this thread...good luck man

Not feelin emasculated just yet lol.

i didn't call anyone or refer to any woman as being a slut. you seem to take offense to that term. do you have an issue? are you unhappy with the number of men you've been with?

i know who i am and what i am. i also know what my hang ups are. my identity is not wrapped in my lack of partners but rather in my non cavalier attitude toward finding a partner.

obviously the OP is someone that women are drawn to. and because of this it's easy for him to be confident. while you women may not agree with his exploits, in the male community he is revered for his conquests. whereas men like me are ignored in both the male and female communities.

You obviously cared enough to bring up the topic.