WHAT ONE THING COULD SOMEONE DO ON A FIRST DATE THAT WOULD MAKE YOU WANT
TO SCREAM AND RUN FOR THE HILLS?








For me , it would be if he was arrongant or stuck on himself. Also if
they talk about all the past relationships always putting there partners
down trying to make themselves look good.

What always drove me up a wall was when they automatically assumed that
this was necessarily the first step towards a long-term committed
relationship. Jeez, it takes more than 3 hours together to get to that!

Stuff like, ten minutes into dinner: "So, what do you think WE'LL be
doing a year from now?" or "My mom might not like us living together."

Who said anything about THAT?

You take a girl to Arby's and she thinks you're gonna marry her.
Pffffffffttttttt.

Must be something in the potato cakes.

too much starch

****iness, stuck up, always talks about himself, etc..turns me off so
much

Getting his life history in less than an hour. To begin with that means
I haven't gotten to participate in the conversation at all, and honestly
I really don't have to or want to know about every relationship,
illness, blah, blah, blah, you ever had on the first date. It's boring.
I don't do boring. I want interesting, humorous, even intellectual
conversation.

Ate off my plate without asking and then finishing my drink because he
didn't like the way MY dinner tasted!!

By the way, he also made me drive because his car wasn't "sounding
right"

omg...

i met a guy for a date, we went to pizza hut...

all seemed fine..til during dinner..he says, "my sister died." *LONG
EXAGGERATED PAUSE HERE* this is where im thinkin ..what do i say to
this? im sorry? and outta no where.. "but they brought her back to
life!"

dinner was over, here we are headin to the park for a walk, and i get
outta his truck, he comes over to me, pinned me against his truck (now
im thinkin he's gonna kiss me right? WRONG) then put his hand on my
chest, and asked "have i touched your heart?" i was like..umm..uhhh..no
dude..and you're REALLY weird

normal ppl don't tell a first date, my sister died *long exaggerated
pause* as tho the women is DEAD still...

this was prolly the most funky wierd WTF? date i've ever had

The worst thing that I think a person could do on a first date to make
me want to tell them excuse me I have to go to the rest room and then
run out, is if they have no type of conversation or if they buy me
dinner and expect sex after run forest run LOL

One of the things that I would walk out on a first date is if the first
thing that come's out of her mouth is "What do you do for a living and
how much do make?"

Can't stand people that are that shallow... unfortunately I'm speaking
from my own experience

Humm true guys if they ask right off the bat how much money you make or
about taking you home to meet the family on the first date that would be
a bit scary. lol Time to run for sure.


Sweet & Raindrops Ohh heck ya the memememe conversation when it's time
to leave they have no ideal what your name was cause they got lost in
themselves lol.

eileena, please don't tell me you have had a first date eat off your
plate and drink out of your glass. OMG, my kids are not even that brave
lol To the curb with that one.

Humm ellgee that is a tad too weird on a first date sure needless too
say that one was the last.

Ya got that right Ms_Scorpio, if they want dessert they better order it
off the menu lol

Well, I met a man for a movie and dinner one evening - blind date from
another site. He was disheveled, clothes wrinkled, hair all mussed up,
bad breath and I don't think he bothered to shower. I didn't run, but I
didn't see him a second time.

damm Txs you made me think now!! roflmao!!

Hey Lex- It would take more than Arbys
JK LOL

smell, that would do it!!

Unfortunately TxsGal, it was true and when I went to drive him back to
his place to 'kick him to the curb' he dented my car door on a post in
front of his place. I only had my car 3 months--brand new car!

He got the hint real quick to lose my number!

"WHAT ONE THING COULD SOMEONE DO ON A FIRST DATE THAT WOULD MAKE YOU
WANT TO SCREAM AND RUN FOR THE HILLS?"

1. Answer the cell phone. Repeatedly. Carry on a 2nd conversation while
on the phone. Ugh. Wether it be work, a friend's crisis, or catching the
latest game-scores. Rude.

2. No real attempt to create or follow a thread in the conversation,
except when its directly focused on themselves.

3. Pointless complaining about the particular place. Say you ask a lady
out, and goto the place of her choosing. There she belly-aches about how
crappy the food is, or how run down the place looks... WTF?

3. B1tchiness towards the waiter/staff. This is an immediate "end of
story" flag. If its outright and in the face of the staff, I'm outta
there. If its nasty mouthiness after the waiter has walked away, then
I'll simply not ask for a follow up date.

4. Someone who thrives on "Put Down Energy". Almost the same as #3, but,
slightly different in that the person reveals through the conversation
how she views herself in relation to others. If its an occasional "so &
so is a jerk", thats fair, and probably appropriate. But, when the
majority of ppl (be it direct, or as a generalization) are described as
"idiots", "jerks", "stupid", "ignorant" then you know she's going to be
a problem. "End of Story" flag!

my first date, with my ex was under the board walk, with the ocean
hitting our feet,the rides, loud music and fire works it was so hot!

Ohh eileena it's bad enough he ate off your plate and drank from yur
glass but ohhhh to put a dent in your car he is lucky you did not run
over his ass lol. shhhhhhhhsssssss


Mike, you seem to have that one pretty well to the T with your list I
agree with you on those all the way. Now I can not stand to go out to
eat with anyone that gets rude witht the wait staff. Ohhh no one of my
pet peeves lol.

Um telling me about how
her stepfather abused
her as a child.

I actually had a blind
date where that happened.

Um, can't that wait
until at least the
second date?

Humm yeah that is a bit to much info for a first date.