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Topic: So, I was looking at possible matches....
durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Thu 02/05/09 07:19 AM
the one I want is Lose some weight, something like 10/20/30/40/50/60/70/80/90/ ( pick one) or more pounds and get a makeover then contact me. oops thats shallow of me isn't it? oh well.. if the shoe fits......

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Thu 02/05/09 07:19 AM
I wanna know why I keep getting MM with guys that are WAY outside the parameters I set..... They read your profile and like what they saw. Then they clicked the "match" button. Oh right.....forgot about that....

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Thu 02/05/09 07:20 AM
the one I want is Lose some weight, something like 10/20/30/40/50/60/70/80/90/ ( pick one) or more pounds and get a makeover then contact me. oops thats shallow of me isn't it? oh well.. if the shoe fits...... I think guys like you should put that on their profile....so the girls know up front....

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Thu 02/05/09 07:24 AM
the one I want is Lose some weight, something like 10/20/30/40/50/60/70/80/90/ ( pick one) or more pounds and get a makeover then contact me. oops thats shallow of me isn't it? oh well.. if the shoe fits...... Not at all

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Thu 02/05/09 07:28 AM
it's there trust me.....I stated it in my profile between 110 and 145....I am only 5' 7" and weigh 165.... so I stay fit and healthy and expect the same.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 02/05/09 07:30 AM
the one I want is Lose some weight, something like 10/20/30/40/50/60/70/80/90/ ( pick one) or more pounds and get a makeover then contact me. oops thats shallow of me isn't it? oh well.. if the shoe fits...... I think guys like you should put that on their profile....so the girls know up front.... Good idea.

Drago01 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1311	Thu 02/05/09 07:30 AM
Id like just a simple "no comment" button. The Maybe button is Okay but might be misconstrued as a yes.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 02/05/09 07:31 AM
the one I want is Lose some weight, something like 10/20/30/40/50/60/70/80/90/ ( pick one) or more pounds and get a makeover then contact me. oops thats shallow of me isn't it? oh well.. if the shoe fits...... I think guys like you should put that on their profile....so the girls know up front.... Yes.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Thu 02/05/09 07:38 AM
Well, if people would ACTUALLY read the profiles... And then it will also require that they have paid attention to what they read... then maybe just maybe it wouldn't require that button I wanted. Oh and it also requires that people be very, very honest in what they say in their profiles doesn't it?

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Thu 02/05/09 07:40 AM
the one I want is Lose some weight, something like 10/20/30/40/50/60/70/80/90/ ( pick one) or more pounds and get a makeover then contact me. oops thats shallow of me isn't it? oh well.. if the shoe fits...... I think guys like you should put that on their profile....so the girls know up front.... Yes. I don't mean to offend. I'm just saying... I've had guys start to talk to me and comment on the lack of full body pics.....and accuse me of being secretly obese. Then when they see that I'm not, well...THEN they want to date me.....but at that point...it's just too late. I already know what the guys is like. It's fine if you're shallow and only want hot bodies. I, personally, just don't want that kind of guy and think it would be nice if they could wear some kind of a sign....

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 02/05/09 08:00 AM
Well, if people would ACTUALLY read the profiles... And then it will also require that they have paid attention to what they read... then maybe just maybe it wouldn't require that button I wanted. Oh and it also requires that people be very, very honest in what they say in their profiles doesn't it? Do you require someone to be of a certain weight to even be friends?

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 02/05/09 08:01 AM
it's there trust me.....I stated it in my profile between 110 and 145....I am only 5' 7" and weigh 165.... so I stay fit and healthy and expect the same. Dang, I'm 146 lbs. Oh, well. Win some, lose some.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 02/05/09 08:03 AM
it's there trust me.....I stated it in my profile between 110 and 145....I am only 5' 7" and weigh 165.... so I stay fit and healthy and expect the same. Dang, I'm 146 lbs. Oh, well. Win some, lose some. Damn that one pound.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 02/05/09 08:04 AM Edited by Winx on Thu 02/05/09 08:08 AM
it's there trust me.....I stated it in my profile between 110 and 145....I am only 5' 7" and weigh 165.... so I stay fit and healthy and expect the same. Dang, I'm 146 lbs. Oh, well. Win some, lose some. Damn that one pound. I know but what can a girl do? Shrugs shoulders.

huskydogowner Joined Sun 08/19/07 Posts: 259	Thu 02/05/09 08:16 AM
I can tell you that people may scan over profiles, if they read them at all. I have received about three comments on my, by choice, fictitously disturbing profile. Truthfully, just write anything. It doesn't really seem to matter. 200 pounds, by the way.

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Thu 02/05/09 08:18 AM
...and I have come to the conclusion that besides the "yes", "no" and "maybe" buttons they should add a new one. It should be the "oh..no way in hell" button. just my opinion of course...lol I asked to have that feature put in when I first signed up!!!!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 02/05/09 08:19 AM
I can tell you that people may scan over profiles, if they read them at all. I have received about three comments on my, by choice, fictitously disturbing profile. Truthfully, just write anything. It doesn't really seem to matter. 200 pounds, by the way. First, you say that people scan over profiles. Then you say they've commented on your profile, meaning they've probably read it. Which is it?

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 02/05/09 08:21 AM
I can tell you that people may scan over profiles, if they read them at all. I have received about three comments on my, by choice, fictitously disturbing profile. Truthfully, just write anything. It doesn't really seem to matter. 200 pounds, by the way. I read profiles.

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Thu 02/05/09 08:29 AM
Well, if people would ACTUALLY read the profiles... And then it will also require that they have paid attention to what they read... then maybe just maybe it wouldn't require that button I wanted. Oh and it also requires that people be very, very honest in what they say in their profiles doesn't it? Do you require someone to be of a certain weight to even be friends? nope ... but if I wanted to be in a serious relationship? thats different to me.. I have female friends that actually weigh more then I do.. its no big deal.. BUT this is a dating site isn't it? And that what we came here for in the first place isn't it? So that's what I looked for. Sorry I will be shallow and have my preferences... Which we all do btw.. and I do read the whole profile and look at what a person writes about before I make any snap judgements. Full body picture or not! still want that button too!

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 02/05/09 08:32 AM
Well, if people would ACTUALLY read the profiles... And then it will also require that they have paid attention to what they read... then maybe just maybe it wouldn't require that button I wanted. Oh and it also requires that people be very, very honest in what they say in their profiles doesn't it? Do you require someone to be of a certain weight to even be friends? nope ... but if I wanted to be in a serious relationship? thats different to me.. I have female friends that actually weigh more then I do.. its no big deal.. BUT this is a dating site isn't it? And that what we came here for in the first place isn't it? So that's what I looked for. Sorry I will be shallow and have my preferences... Which we all do btw.. and I do read the whole profile and look at what a person writes about before I make any snap judgements. Full body picture or not! still want that button too! Just asking, that's all. Some people's preferences have to do with looks. Some don't.