Hello, other people on internet. This post is targetted at single females in the Tampa Bay area that want to share something like this with a guy, knowing circumstances in advance.

I'm 25, white, and consider myself attractive. My wife and I woke up one day and realized that we had become friends a long time ago and were afraid of what the other might say if one of us confronted it.

I'm suddenly aware of my own happiness in a way I've never known in my life, and because of finding that, I suddenly see other people in shades of emotion I was unaware of as a teenager dumping or being dumped by someone else. Knowing this, I'd like to be careful not to hurt myself or someone else in moving too fast.
I am extremely intense, and I need someone secure enough to tell me to slow down when they don't feel comfortable, and to meet it when they choose to. I consider myself a person who has just discovered the joy of being alive and wants to share that with someone who does not want the husband I cannot be due to a fanatic work ethic and goal I cannot explain here. I cannot be a father. I can only offer to share my mind and body with a person that promises not to hurt me by wanting more than what I can give.