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Topic: Is it a bad thing...
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Wed 02/04/09 01:06 AM
I only recently discovered the joy of the forums. i got bored lookin at the same ten crappy profiles n my town lol

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Wed 02/04/09 01:11 AM
The forums are necessary to achieve the optimal mingler experience drinks

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Wed 02/04/09 02:25 AM

The forums are necessary to achieve the optimal mingler experience drinks


Spoken like a seasoned moderator!

Bravo...!

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Wed 02/04/09 02:25 AM
Edited by MahanMahan on Wed 02/04/09 02:26 AM

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Wed 02/04/09 02:42 AM
That lil animation is so nifty. in my bored state of mind i tried 2 count how many there werelaugh

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Wed 02/04/09 05:52 AM
It is bad if this is your only outlet.

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Wed 02/04/09 11:40 PM

That lil animation is so nifty. in my bored state of mind i tried 2 count how many there werelaugh


Well, don't keep us in suspense... How many are there?

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Thu 02/05/09 02:44 AM
I forget tears

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Thu 02/05/09 02:46 AM

I forget tears


well, it's 19, give or take a couple.

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Thu 02/05/09 02:56 AM
Now i have 2 watch it again lol

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Thu 02/05/09 11:13 AM


Your handsome. I would have thought the woman would be swarming over you.


i wonder why people think this.

i also wonder if women think this about me.

i'm not really fishing here, just wondering.

it's one thing to assume that when you see people together that they may be together, but to just look at someone and assume that they're taken, that confuses me.


I think it is the mentality that if a person is "hot" (which btw I'm by no means in my own eyes smokin ) they probably have a lot of attention and therefore a higher chance of meeting someone they will click with. Truth is, since I've been back I've gotten maybe 4 or 5 responses and no first contacts.

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Thu 02/05/09 11:19 AM
Too bad you live in Oregon.....

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Thu 02/05/09 11:08 PM
I want 2 live n oregon...love

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Thu 02/05/09 11:19 PM

I want 2 live n oregon...love


I want you to move to Oregon... and wait for further instructions!bigsmile

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Fri 02/06/09 06:16 PM

That I take a break from the site now and then? I don't mean like a week here or there, I mean like months between being active. I dunno, I guess you reach a point where nothing serious ever happens and you wonder what the hell your doing. Am I alone here?


You just need to toggle your expectations.

I originally joined up thinking this site would help me go from "single" to "not single." I haven't had much luck at all, and so dismissed the notion of meeting single women through here long ago. Nonetheless, I still come here regularly to navigate the forums. But it is rare that I click on the search option.

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Fri 02/06/09 06:17 PM

That I take a break from the site now and then? I don't mean like a week here or there, I mean like months between being active. I dunno, I guess you reach a point where nothing serious ever happens and you wonder what the hell your doing. Am I alone here?

What ever fits. If you are dating and having fun or On Vacation or In Jail or just what ever. Life is life.

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Fri 02/06/09 06:22 PM
Taking a break is normal and healthy. I don't think on this site you are in danger of hurting your chance by disappearing for a while.

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Fri 02/06/09 07:05 PM


That I take a break from the site now and then? I don't mean like a week here or there, I mean like months between being active. I dunno, I guess you reach a point where nothing serious ever happens and you wonder what the hell your doing. Am I alone here?

What ever fits. If you are dating and having fun or On Vacation or In Jail or just what ever. Life is life.


Haven't been to jail yet, but CLOSE smokin something about me not being able to keep my mouth shut when I should pitchfork

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Wed 02/11/09 02:12 AM

I only recently discovered the joy of the forums. i got bored lookin at the same ten crappy profiles n my town lol


There are only so many people in my area too. A break from the site could allow for more people from you're area to join the site while you are out looking elsewhere. You can then meet/write to them when you return.

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