Topic: Need advice about a dude I just met!!!
Drifters13's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:20 AM

Well if you girls that are saying "maybe he has somewhere to be at night" are implying that he's like married or something...gah that would be bad. I really don't think he is. He kept talking about his roommate. Also, I was thinking the whole "day" thing might mean something other than sex...usually those that want just sex wanna hang out at night, right? In general.


You may be on to something there.

Give it a little time, find out if he worksand what he does, being up all night might have effected his work.

Good luck.

Roco's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:21 AM
but it sounds like you like this guy..

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:22 AM



"does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work? "



Yea I guess that could be it. I don't know...And right before I posted this, I called him to see what he was doing today, cause its daytime and I'm bored. He didn't answer, I left a message.


And dude with the spikey hair, I can't ask him anything until I talk to him!


...doesn't change the fact that he can give you the answer we cannot. You're asking us to read minds, and we simply cannot do that.


Umm no I'm just asking for adivce/tips..obviously you have none, so SHUSH!


Gave my advice, so you shush.tongue2

no photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:22 AM
ok you called...left a message...
ball is in his court now...

wait

Roco's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:23 AM
yup..his balls in his court..for now..

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:23 AM




"does he work? maybe he's implying that you tired him out and he was dragging at work? "



Yea I guess that could be it. I don't know...And right before I posted this, I called him to see what he was doing today, cause its daytime and I'm bored. He didn't answer, I left a message.


And dude with the spikey hair, I can't ask him anything until I talk to him!


...doesn't change the fact that he can give you the answer we cannot. You're asking us to read minds, and we simply cannot do that.


Umm no I'm just asking for adivce/tips..obviously you have none, so SHUSH!


Gave my advice, so you shush.tongue2




laugh laugh

lizziebiz's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:24 AM
Yea I do sorta like him, obviously I don't know him THAT well. Yes he does or did work. He actually found out he was getting laid off this week...like 80% of ppl in his field in my town got laid off monday..anyways, so I'm not sure if he works through this week or what. Oh well. I guess we'll see if he calls me back.

buttons's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:25 AM
if you took time to get to know him better before you jumped in the sack with him< going all the way ,or not> then you might not even be wondering. one day long date cant possibly be long enough to know enough about him or determine his motives..

no photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:27 AM
usually when guys want to meet during the day specific times they are married or attached and hiding what they are doing from a g/f or wife who thinks he is at work

74Drew's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:27 AM

Ask him?


the only way to be sure.

Jill298's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:28 AM

that is a strange thing to reply back to you... almost sounds as if he has somewhere else he is supposed to be at night.. hummm
Yea that was my thought on it.
And the fact that he left before you even woke up seems kinda shady...
I'd let him come to you. Don't go after him. See how it plays out.

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:28 AM

if you took time to get to know him better before you jumped in the sack with him< going all the way ,or not> then you might not even be wondering. one day long date cant possibly be long enough to know enough about him or determine his motives..



yeah jumpng in the sack is the ultimate prize, right? rofl

no photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:28 AM
Sorry, but someone who's available only during the day is probably married or living with someone. He's probably wanting you to be his nooner.


lizziebiz's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:30 AM
Well thanks girls, I hope you all are wrong though! That would suck lol. Who knows. All I know is he still has my guest parking pass for my apt. complex and I want it back damnit. lol

no photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:31 AM
no no no
don't assume anything
you know what they say about people who assume
wait and get your facts as they come

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:31 AM

Well thanks girls, I hope you all are wrong though! That would suck lol. Who knows. All I know is he still has my guest parking pass for my apt. complex and I want it back damnit. lol


sex in the parking lot...nice! :banana:

buttons's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:35 AM
maybe next time suggest to go to his house and cook him dinner?.. i always like to meet their friends too and go to their house before i hop in the sack.. so i know a bit more about this person...of course going to their house and meeting their friends is after i had a few dates alone with them first...

buttons's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:38 AM

no no no
don't assume anything
you know what they say about people who assume
wait and get your facts as they come

agreed assuming isnt a good thing to do..but getting to know someone is... it just takes a lot of questions you may have rolling around in your head that wasnt needed to be there in the first place

lizziebiz's photo
Thu 01/29/09 10:30 AM
Ok, so he just texted me back after I had called him like 2 hours ago and he said "What did you have in mind?" I hate when guys ask this question. I never have anything in mind other than I just want to hang out with you!

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/29/09 10:34 AM

Ok, so he just texted me back after I had called him like 2 hours ago and he said "What did you have in mind?" I hate when guys ask this question. I never have anything in mind other than I just want to hang out with you!



yeah! :laughing: