last night i was using the computer, i was logged on the yahoo messenger via the web, i was trying to talk to a young lady from mingle2 on my messenger, wheni got a message sayin it was her sister using her account on yahoo, while bc my messenger was acting up i sent a couple of messages. when this person logged back into her own accout i was berated for be obsessive, and told that based on my actions i was not the person they thought i was. now i have sent a couple of emails saying im sorry and the likes. the thing of the matter is, i really like this girl, and would like to continue talking to her...any ideas minglers?

Yeah, I have some advice. You blew it, leave her alone. Next! Sorry, but thats the honest truth.

Dude ...

A more efficient mode of transportation.

for you.what was you bein obsessive about if i may ask?and then maybe one of us can help.

Kitten said the best option,sure it was a misunderstanding..but u cant force the issue.Just give it at least a few days and then just send a simple "hi"...and if she responds, then all good.If no,than just a bad event and move along pilgrim,theres another watering hole yonder...

you beat me to the punch sis but ya it's the truth

she said that the fact that i had sent 3 messages was being obsessive, all i was trying to do was see if my messenger was working correctly an to be sure that she recieved one of them

im tellin you this girl is SEXY mean in a sexy way... well dont write her at all because it might make you seem even more obsesive. it she wants it she will write you...sry dude

Online never assume anything you may think you have made a connection and then there gone.

ya,but innocent or not..you cant reform her opinion,no matter how silly...just regret that she is quick too jump too conclusions and try once more.And if she still feels the same,oh well..u seem decent enough and will have no problem with the next one..unless your comp has trouble:).Dont worry too much guy

And you live in Albucracky. I know some peeps from there.

did you used to live here

Naw, have a friend that used to live here a long time ago. She lives there now.

She flipped...your screwed, and quite frankly probably better off.

Get over it and move on. There are plenty of fish....blah, blah, blah....

ya what he said

let it go man. besides, she was letting her sister use her messenger? you can't even know who you were talking to.

a song just came on my ipod and it seemed to fit

love's a B*tch
Quiet Riot

Yep if she is calling you obsessive because you sent a couple unsolicited messages then the message she is sending you is BUG OFF.
So do it friend.