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Topic: advice, help, whatever
Lfer's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:27 PM
SO

as most of you know i am 8months almost 9 months pregnant now and i have been a lone through out this pregnancy, meaning no 'daddy' to help me alone the way. my ex who is the father, decided to 'get involved' with the baby just by asking me how am i doing and he said 'i'm so excited to be a parent' NOW he pulls the rug from underneath me and says 'i am NOT the father of this child, you went up and shacked up with someone else' okay now i now i have lied in the past BUT ABOUT THIS? come on, how old does he think i am. i know what i did and i know whom i've slept with.

i'll just always be mad at myself for getting with someone THAT LOW CLASS.

ljcc1964's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:29 PM
OK...I give up.

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:30 PM
slaphead

Lfer's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:33 PM
well jesus i'm sorry if i'm whats called SCARED.

dbh1966's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:38 PM

SO

as most of you know i am 8months almost 9 months pregnant now and i have been a lone through out this pregnancy, meaning no 'daddy' to help me alone the way. my ex who is the father, decided to 'get involved' with the baby just by asking me how am i doing and he said 'i'm so excited to be a parent' NOW he pulls the rug from underneath me and says 'i am NOT the father of this child, you went up and shacked up with someone else' okay now i now i have lied in the past BUT ABOUT THIS? come on, how old does he think i am. i know what i did and i know whom i've slept with.

i'll just always be mad at myself for getting with someone THAT LOW CLASS.


Maybe I'm not understanding. You shacked up with someone else other than the babies father and now that he has found that out... he says he is not the father? Well if you know in your heart that he is the father that will come out eventually. Also where is your relationship with your ex? In other words is he deep down saying he is not the father because of jealousy with you shacking up with another man?

ScotishGerman27's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:38 PM
keep the perverbial chin up, thats a damn shame:banana:

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:39 PM
I got left to do my pregnancy by myself too. It sucks but you just get thru it because you have no other option.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:39 PM
In fact, not only did he leave, he was cruel.

Lfer's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:40 PM


SO

as most of you know i am 8months almost 9 months pregnant now and i have been a lone through out this pregnancy, meaning no 'daddy' to help me alone the way. my ex who is the father, decided to 'get involved' with the baby just by asking me how am i doing and he said 'i'm so excited to be a parent' NOW he pulls the rug from underneath me and says 'i am NOT the father of this child, you went up and shacked up with someone else' okay now i now i have lied in the past BUT ABOUT THIS? come on, how old does he think i am. i know what i did and i know whom i've slept with.

i'll just always be mad at myself for getting with someone THAT LOW CLASS.


Maybe I'm not understanding. You shacked up with someone else other than the babies father and now that he has found that out... he says he is not the father? Well if you know in your heart that he is the father that will come out eventually. Also where is your relationship with your ex? In other words is he deep down saying he is not the father because of jealousy with you shacking up with another man?


no, i didn't get with another guy.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:41 PM
drag his ass on the maury show devil

Shagwell's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:41 PM
this guy is willing to step up to the plate >>>

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/199884

Winx's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:42 PM

SO

as most of you know i am 8months almost 9 months pregnant now and i have been a lone through out this pregnancy, meaning no 'daddy' to help me alone the way. my ex who is the father, decided to 'get involved' with the baby just by asking me how am i doing and he said 'i'm so excited to be a parent' NOW he pulls the rug from underneath me and says 'i am NOT the father of this child, you went up and shacked up with someone else' okay now i now i have lied in the past BUT ABOUT THIS? come on, how old does he think i am. i know what i did and i know whom i've slept with.

i'll just always be mad at myself for getting with someone THAT LOW CLASS.


Call Family Services when the baby is born. They'll do a blood test.flowerforyou

chevylover1965's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:42 PM
jerry-jerry-jerry ! :banana:

Lfer's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:43 PM
i want to but i don't want too.

its just a waste of my time, especially on someone like that.

Winx's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:43 PM

i want to but i don't want too.

its just a waste of my time, especially on someone like that.


It will help you get child support.

dbh1966's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:44 PM

SO

as most of you know i am 8months almost 9 months pregnant now and i have been a lone through out this pregnancy, meaning no 'daddy' to help me alone the way. my ex who is the father, decided to 'get involved' with the baby just by asking me how am i doing and he said 'i'm so excited to be a parent' NOW he pulls the rug from underneath me and says 'i am NOT the father of this child, you went up and shacked up with someone else' okay now i now i have lied in the past BUT ABOUT THIS? come on, how old does he think i am. i know what i did and i know whom i've slept with.

i'll just always be mad at myself for getting with someone THAT LOW CLASS.


Lfer do you have plenty of family and friends who will be there for you through it all?

ScotishGerman27's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:45 PM
dont take the poor bastard onto a show like that, ull just be doing more damage to ur relationship with him == thats LOW CLASS

Lfer's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:45 PM
that is a bonus but what makes me think he'll give me child support? yeah the goverment will go after him, but my mom is going through the same bull**** with my dad. my dad only pays maybe 20$ a month at the most, sometimes he doesn't pay at all.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:46 PM
Edited by Jill298 on Fri 01/23/09 12:46 PM

dont take the poor bastard onto a show like that, ull just be doing more damage to ur relationship with him == thats LOW CLASS
uuummmm excuse me but her relationship with him should already be done. She doesn't need one with him that's outside of the child. Other than that, just being civil is good enough.

Tanzkity's photo
Fri 01/23/09 12:47 PM
This is why you should always have a jimmy................I dont think girls or women seem to think things through in the heat of the moment but come on we have to these days...............men will play these games on you when all they wanted to do was fukc you so please........please lets stop being delusional so this epidemic of pregnancies can end and lets give our girls enough common sense and self esteem to be a better judge of character..................frustrated frustrated frustrated

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