Do you ever feel like when you are in one you want to be out and when you are out of one you want to be in? Is it just me..or am I nuts...

What's a relationship? Sorry, I'm not familiar with this term.

Then you are a very lucky person...

Yup-Yup-Can be true,sometimes-depends on how satisfied you are.

I think so.

I have but I realized I didn't really want to be in those relationships anyway... I've been in other relationships where I never wanted to be out of them...

sounds like the cat to me. They sit at the door until you let them out. You turn around and they want back in again. Turn around again and they want out...Its a vicious circle.
I hate cats.

Yup. You're bonkers, all right.

But no- I don't feel that way. If I'm in, I'm in for the long haul... none of that in-or-out stuff.

Maybe that is what's wrong....thanks

like a cashew...or maybe a pistachio

Yes I'm confused too.....

But when I find myself in a situation that I'mnot comfortible with or I just don't want to be there, I take myself out of it.

I really don't care what someone else thinks about it, I don't have to live with them. But I do have to live with myself.

not nuts, just human..

I'm single rightt now and lots of times I just wish I weren't. sometimes, I think about calling my ex. sometimes, I do. most times I don't. It's a good thing she lives in another city, now on another continent.

what you forget when you're on your own is just how miserable you were when they were around, most of the time, except for "those certain times" and even at the end, those weren't all that good. but we forget that.. it's a convenient case of amnesia that causes this. we only remember the good times, particularly in the bad times. I think it's human nature to make yourself forget the bad and remember only the good.

grass is always greener, I suppose.

I agree

If it were just you, then you would be nuts.

You can be nuts, and still be right.

And...Yes, but just one time, when I was in a relationship I wanted out.
And...No. I do not want to be in a relationship, until after I am ready for all the bells and whistles and stuff...if ever again.

In all fairness, I do not know what "all the bells and whistles" means in the context of having a full-blown relationship with a lady in her forties or fifties.

wow.

This statement is so very true.

I must be nuts, too then -- almost inevitably (I will allow for a handful of exceptions) after about three months, I'm DYING to find a graceful way out. (It does force me to come up with some pretty creative exit strategies, though, and some of those are reusable.)

After I've been alone for awhile, like now, I start thinking how great it would be to find a new girlfriend. But there's that 90-day expiration date lurking in the back of my mind -- I just KNOW I'll be bored to death by then....