ok so my gf of 3 years recently broke up with me cuz she said i didnt show enough affection n some other stuff. this was about 2 months ago and she keeps telling me now that shes unhappy n she really wanted to get back together after a week of us being broken up and is now askin me what would happen if we did get back together. But the thing is she went a a couple dates 5 days after we broke up got a boyfriend maybe 2 weeks after we broke up. She seems happy with him i see facebook pics of them kissin up on each other n captions sayin stuff that she use to say to me. Why is she telling me she want to get back together if she happy with this guy, is this just a game? i dont know if i could get back with her cuz im still not over her but it took her too weeks to get a boyfriend. i dont think i could do it even tho i want to cuz of her and this guy. should i not be so jealous? any suggestions would help

Women, you can't live with them and you can't leave by the side of the road when you're done. She is insecure, the question is do you want her.

wow, that pretty much sucks - but to make a suggestion -- decide on what you want, if you want to be with her, suck it up, let it go and continue? if you are not sure, I'd tell you that's your answer right there.

As to her actions, the best person to ask would be her.

good luck

Being a female gives me an advantage on this one!!! The girl just realized what she had but in my opinion she should've already realized that a long time ago (c'mon 3 years). She just wants 2 have her cake and eat it too! Think long and hard about this one because you'll be putting your heart on the line. Best of luck :)

You shouldn't get back together with her. At least not anytime soon. Maybe her intentions aren't to play games, but her actions certainly say otherwise. I was with a guy who did something similar to this, and even though I still did care about him I knew it would have been stupid of me to get back together with him. 1) this girl is obviously unsure of what she really wants and 2) she's dating someone else and telling you she wants to get back together...probably means she misses the attention you gave her and she wants you to want her again. Do what you feel is right I guess, but as someone who's been in this situation before, I say wait a few months at least before you consider getting back with her. See where you two both are then. Maybe you'll have a change of heart.

sounds to me like she gets around...can i have her number? be seeing you

yea in definately not gettin back with her right away i think that would be the wise thing, i think i might just be lonely, im looking for attention too which is probably why i would even give it some consideration

normal feelings

make the decision by answering, "what's best for you?"

good luck