I have a question and I thought what a better way to get an answer then
to ask it on here....

If your talking to someone who you met here on JSH and things are going
good but you haven't met in person yet but your already planning too,
and you feel there is a connection, should you still talk to other guys
on here or should you not?

Any advice is good advice..

well? did someone say "exclusive"? 'nough said?

wh's to say you wont make more friends by continuing to chat on here?

ummm no i would keep chatting as friends! unless otherwise

Thats a good question! I guess it depends on what you are looking for? I
think it depends on how you really feel about this man that you are
planning on meeting. Maybe you should talk to him and see how he feels?
If you both agree to talk to other people then you have nothing to feel
bad about.

The words exclusive didn't come out of our mouth....but we have been
talking for a while and alot. We really like each other so far and I am
assuming he wouldn't want me to chat it up with other guys and I don't
think I want him to either but if its innocent chat and just making
friends then is that okay to do? or would that make him leery of us
talking. He is really nice and stuff and I don't want him getting the
wrong idea.

KEEP TALKING.

Unsure, that was such good advice thanks!!!!

Well if you know it would hurt him or worry him and you really like him
then don't do it.

Although it seems no exclusivity has been asked for or granted, you
never know what the other person might be expecting. I would suggest
talking to the person about what they think. Open communication doesn't
hurt.

sure ya may have plans to meet but hey if you can keep talking and
looking around maybe you can find someone even better.



yes iam being sarcastic

I think the best approach is the honest approach. The fact that you
asked this question makes a statement in itself.

Any time Justanothergirl
If you don't talk to him about it, how do you know how he feels? He
might be sitting there wondering the same thing. I know that if you
don't discuss it with him and he mentions other women, would you feel
like he is cheating on you? If so, then you need to speak up and fast!
I have learned something, if you don't voice your opinion and lay your
feelings on the line...no one can read your mind! So if you are thinking
you want to be exclusive, then just tell him because he might be talking
to other women and have no clue how you feel.
Good luck

I am getting such great advice on here...thanks everyone

your welcome JustAnotherGirl73

Hey Just.....I am in the same position you are in. My boyfriend and I
met on here, but I continue to form new relationships with other guys.
You just have to be honest and up-front about it to the new guys. I
changed my headline from "Looking for a man for dating" to "Looking for
a man for friendship" just so that others won't get the wrong idea. And
also a big ditto to everything that Unsure has said! lol

I kind of agree with unsure, just one step further. It's more important
what you think, so imagine the roles reversed. How would you feel if you
found out he was talking to other girls on JSH? Why?

Wait, it doesn't matter why, because the bottom line is, if it is wrong
for him, then its wrong for you.

your on a dating sight here......untill you both make a commitment to
each other there's no reason why you can't carry on like before.

I agree with Newguy
Just be honest

Depends on whether or not you have consumated your cyber-relationship
with cyber-sex yet.