So, my brother's best friend and I have been taking for some time now.
And just tonight he gets the guts to tell me that he likes me. And I like him alot to. But, the thing is its going to be at least 2 years till I get to be with him. Because hes in Fort Bragg right now. And hes leaving to iraq soon. And I told him that I would wait for him. And he told me don't waste your time waiting for me, you have your whole life ahead of you.
And then I told him that "My whole life will be waste if its not with you". And then we started to cry on the phone together. But, I wanna know should I wait for him or should I just have little flings with other guys till he comes back??

I'd have to say he's right. You really got to live your life, 'cause if you dont you'll have a bunch of regrets mi amigo. embrace the new, at the same time dont do anything stupid, just have fun. Its fun to have fun, but you got to know how. I dont know if I"m making apoint anymore XD. But ifyou get something out of this, I will have accomplished something :)

Awww.That's the kind of cute stuff you only see in romance movies. If it was me.. I wouldn't date seriously.. I would go on a few casual dates. Why let your life pass you by while you wait around? I personally wouldn't go on a serious date, But if he wants to be with you he will come back. And if he doesn't, at least you'll know you didn't waste your time waiting for false hope.

Well of course I'll have fun thats what friends are for right?
I don't need a guy I mean they invented dildos for a reason lol

Either wait for him or move on. DO NOT have little flings if you commit to him. He will have enough to deal with in Iraq.

I'm right across the street from Fort Bragg at the moment. Just left Fort Jackson yesterday.

And -most of all- don't date the fella and then pull that "but i just wanna be friends" crap. That's just skanky.

This all balls down to how long you can wait. If you really like this guy and is devoted to not seeing any other guys, I'd say wait for him. Two years is a long time. For example: This is what military wives go through. Sometimes they can't take the long leave and have an affair. Others remain patient and communicate with their husbands and keep them encouraged until they come home. If you feel you can't handle a guy who's job will send him across the world for a certain length of time, then go ahead and move on. If you are willing to give this relationship a shot, go for it! I think you should go for it...but don't break his heart in the end (if it should come to an end). Communication goes the distance. And when he does come back...you will feel that special connection. Sorry so long...I tend to babble when I'm tired. Best wishes to you in your decision.

Well first wow to the pic is that Victoria Secrets...........im not lesbian but I couldnt stop looking.............k I think you should live your life............i have been with military men and they are playas and they also dont have a guarantee since he is going to Iraq.........I think you should keep him in your thoughts be a good friend and if when he gets back you guys are still feeling each other and your both single then why not...............but dont wait for someone who you dont have a commitment with........JMO

Well, thats the thing I don't think at all that it is false hope. Hes already talking about me moving in with him when he comes back And hes telling me that hes going to bring me to seattle to meet his mom and dad

no no no those bras are like $50 heck no lol its Candies

I like im so going to go get some...........and I like Candies they do perfume and makeup right..............so off topic but I had to say wow thats a cute bra..............

Thanks I think this is what IU really needed to hear
I'm going to stay by my man :)

Keep us posted...love to read a happy ending.

well there like 15 to 20 bucks at kohl's but I don't think they do make up

Lol, not exactly what I meant. But as we artists say, "its not what you see, Its what you make them see thats important".

I'm thinking you're going to anyway. I'm old enough to be your dad, so do you want permission?

I was the guy at home once that she dumped for her man.
Let me tell you I was in love and it hurt and she did not care all she wanted is to stop her loneliness at my expense. So don't do that to a guy out there whom probably will fall in love with a beautiful woman like you Please...

I don't plan to hurt him...
I'm pretty sure I'm falling for him
as mush as hes falling for me if not more

Based on your comments alone, I don't see it happening. I'd advise breaking his heart now and saving him some pain down the road.