Topic: The universe doesn't like us together.
Etrain's photo
Fri 01/23/09 10:45 PM
If he was really interested, he'd find a way to get there...my advice...move on...cheersdrinker drinker drinker

Listerine's photo
Fri 01/23/09 10:46 PM
Ok.
It's much easier blaming the universe than him, but I think you're right.
Because I really am getting sick of the disappointment...
So what do I do? Just...? Because he'll probably want to reschedule our date for tonight once he's feeling better...what do I do? Still talk and text knowing that if he cancels one more time that's it? it seems a little cold-hearted.

Etrain's photo
Fri 01/23/09 10:48 PM

Ok.
It's much easier blaming the universe than him, but I think you're right.
Because I really am getting sick of the disappointment...
So what do I do? Just...? Because he'll probably want to reschedule our date for tonight once he's feeling better...what do I do? Still talk and text knowing that if he cancels one more time that's it? it seems a little cold-hearted.

The world is cold hearted...dump him and move ondrinker drinker drinker

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 10:49 PM

Ok.
It's much easier blaming the universe than him, but I think you're right.
Because I really am getting sick of the disappointment...
So what do I do? Just...? Because he'll probably want to reschedule our date for tonight once he's feeling better...what do I do? Still talk and text knowing that if he cancels one more time that's it? it seems a little cold-hearted.
Why is it cold hearted? You're not in a relationship, you've only went out twice. Let him text you and you reply back, when you have time. Don't make anyone a priority that only makes you an option. flowerforyou Look at it like you can take it or leave it. Because really, you can. You don't need all the BS.

Listerine's photo
Fri 01/23/09 10:51 PM
We've been talking for two months though. But...yeah. It was only two dates.

lol. I'm just...too nice for my own good?

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 10:53 PM
Edited by Jill298 on Fri 01/23/09 10:54 PM

We've been talking for two months though. But...yeah. It was only two dates.

lol. I'm just...too nice for my own good?
Sweety my bf of 9 months simply quit speaking to me one day. No fight. No nothing. Everything was fine. I ignored small little signs tho and only hung on to the ones I wanted to read. You've got a clear sign. You can either read it and take your control back, or keep doing what you're doing. I was definitly TO NICE.
Maybe he was sick. Maybe. Hopefully he wouldn't lie. But truthfully, anyone can be good over the phone and emails for 2 months.

Listerine's photo
Fri 01/23/09 10:58 PM
Agh. Hopefully. I feared it would come to this.

Thanks for the help. :)

All of you.


Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:00 PM
I'm so sorry flowerforyou

Listerine's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:05 PM
lol, don't be. You weren't the one canceling on me.
Besides, I kinda thought this would be the advice I got. I just wanted to check and make sure I wasn't being too paranoid that he wasn't actually sick. because who gets sick only when they have a date? WHO? lol.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:06 PM

lol, don't be. You weren't the one canceling on me.
Besides, I kinda thought this would be the advice I got. I just wanted to check and make sure I wasn't being too paranoid that he wasn't actually sick. because who gets sick only when they have a date? WHO? lol.
It does happen... but it doesn't constantly happen.

Listerine's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:13 PM
nope it doesn't...oh well.

I'm actually not as sad about this as I thought I would be. Go figure.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:15 PM

nope it doesn't...oh well.

I'm actually not as sad about this as I thought I would be. Go figure.
That's because you already knew and accepted it. You just wanted it confirmed.

Listerine's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:18 PM
Makes sense.

I'm just a sucker for his apologies. And I'm worried about that.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:21 PM

Makes sense.

I'm just a sucker for his apologies. And I'm worried about that.
me too ohwell And I always try to be hopeful and give people the benefit of the doubt. But there's a difference between that and letting them walk over you. It's a hard lesson to learn. We automatically think just because WE think this way, or we wouldn't treast him this way... why would he do it to us?? But, they do...

Listerine's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:26 PM
Yeah...I just don't get why he would say he was sorry if he didn't mean it. Because if we don't see each other...well, he's not getting anything out of the relationship either. So it really just doesn't make sense.
Maybe he just doesn't know what he wants?
agh.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:27 PM

Yeah...I just don't get why he would say he was sorry if he didn't mean it. Because if we don't see each other...well, he's not getting anything out of the relationship either. So it really just doesn't make sense.
Maybe he just doesn't know what he wants?
agh.
you don't get it because it's not something you would do to him.

Listerine's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:36 PM
True. But, then again, I don't really understand lying at all. But that's just a me thing. I don't do it.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:37 PM

I need help. How do we fight the universe? How do we survive


You don't. You don't fight it, and you don't necessarily give up either. The more you fight it, the more the universe fights back.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:37 PM

True. But, then again, I don't really understand lying at all. But that's just a me thing. I don't do it.
that's exactly my point. You don't understand because, well... you're not a liar laugh If it makes you feel any better, I don't get it either. I'm way to logical of a person for all that. It just makes no sense to me. And men call US hard to understand frustrated

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 01/23/09 11:38 PM

Yeah...I just don't get why he would say he was sorry if he didn't mean it. Because if we don't see each other...well, he's not getting anything out of the relationship either. So it really just doesn't make sense.
Maybe he just doesn't know what he wants?
agh.


Sometimes I just kick myself for not reading the whole thread.