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Well I think that you are spending "too much" energy on this man! You seem to a bright woman, get rid of the negativity and surround yourself with positivity!
just saying 
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FYI - have not spoken to this guy in years - but recently learned of the back door compliments. 
You guys are SO fun that it makes me want to fabricate, just to see how you'd react to more!  Am I allowed to type that on this national forum? (all previous examples were 100% true)
Common! Am I the only one that has ever received mixed signals from soldierfromamerica? (That part is not true). How come no one else is admitting to dealing with mixed signals?.... (crickets chirping in the background). Rhonda My children's grandfather would say, "Oh, you little nixnuts or kibbieditchen or piece of cheese." (all terms of endearment) |
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Edited by
svy14x
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Wed 01/21/09 03:20 PM
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Ha! Hilarious.
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Edited by
svy14x
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Wed 01/21/09 03:48 PM
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Kibbieditchen? That's kind of a "mixed" complement...what does everyone else think? Oh! And GM4N - how much do you charge for this positivity? Go easy on me... sugar & spice & everything nice is different than gold & I can't be made of all 4!
Back on Topic: - I found these online: Mixed signal #1: She always says yes when you ask her out—as long as it's on a weeknight. Mixed signal #2: She says she just wants to be friends and then kisses you. Mixed signal #3: He says he wants to be exclusive but refuses to introduce you as his girlfriend. Anyone have any others? |
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Any one person that did all these things I wouldn't be wanting a intimate talk with them instead I think I would be handing them a gift Certificate to the local mental health center. Do they have those??? 
If so get him a couple. |
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looks like all he wants is attention from you and the gf. But honestly you deserve better. This coming from someone whos dealt with mixed signals for a while. AND TOTALLY AGREE WITH THE MENTAL HEALTH CENTER!!! ahaha
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here sre some mixed signals I got from my last girlfriend:
Constantly asked me "do you still like me?" I always said of course I do! I would tell her how beatiful she is, and she would tell me I am lying. She asked me if I would go to Mexico with her if the opportunity arrised with her work. I said "of course, if I have the money." She repeatedly told me how much we have in common, and she has never felt this way before so soon about a man. Well, this went on for a month or so and then she all of a sudden started becoming distant. Next thing you know she has all these "concerns" over weather or not I am the right guy. (meanwhile, I totally fell in love with her) Then about I week later, she says "this just isn't working." I was crushed and heartbroken, and haven't heard from her since. Her reasons for the the breakup were "we are just not compatible" and "you are getting a degree, and I don't have one." Doesn't make any sense to me. Not sure if I ever will let myself fall head over heels for another girl like that. |
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to the op's statement.....He acting just like most of the ladies I know act..
 ..now you know why guys cannot understand you ladies
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Edited by
svy14x
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Wed 01/21/09 07:35 PM
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Response coming...
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Adam...Adam...Adam... sigh... - I thought we agreed to keep this between me & you?
(blame the soldierofamerica... he put me up to saying this about 2 pages ago). Regarding your situation - I don't think this girl intentionally was trying to give you mixed signals. If you have any feelings for her still - I would suggest you make those feelings known (as you seem to have no problem expressing your sensitive side). The deal is this... as a sales-person I know that the average "Prospect" usually objects to getting the product 6 times... so if you "close" 7 times...you'll get yourself a deal. If she says, "I don't know if we are compatible" ask her why. For EVERY REASON she gives you, CONSIDER it a challenge! She is begging you for the "Sale"! She wants you to talk her into the goods! When the "because's" end... & it finally gets down to "NO! I AM NOT INTERESTED!" and she refuses to give you any more reasons ONLY then should the propaganda end! This is not being desperate as some of the other single (for a reason) people will tell you on here... this is SALES! So sell yourself! |
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Tell him "I care about you, but I just don't think it will work out, this friendship thing we have. Sorry." Then find some new friends.
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Can we say EVASIVE..........he cant MAN UP................CAN YOU UNDERSTAND THAT these are all mind games to screw with you.........he has you in the palm of his hand...........what are you going to do?
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Adam...Adam...Adam... sigh... - I thought we agreed to keep this between me & you? (blame the soldierofamerica... he put me up to saying this about 2 pages ago). Regarding your situation - I don't think this girl intentionally was trying to give you mixed signals. If you have any feelings for her still - I would suggest you make those feelings known (as you seem to have no problem expressing your sensitive side). The deal is this... as a sales-person I know that the average "Prospect" usually objects to getting the product 6 times... so if you "close" 7 times...you'll get yourself a deal. If she says, "I don't know if we are compatible" ask her why. For EVERY REASON she gives you, CONSIDER it a challenge! She is begging you for the "Sale"! She wants you to talk her into the goods! When the "because's" end... & it finally gets down to "NO! I AM NOT INTERESTED!" and she refuses to give you any more reasons ONLY then should the propaganda end! This is not being desperate as some of the other single (for a reason) people will tell you on here... this is SALES! So sell yourself! I have done sold myself on this one. Said about everything I could but "I love you" Actually I might have even said that at the end. Can't remember cuz I was crying like a little girl. lol But as far as your situation goes,this is just too screwy, and I am sure you hate those mind games as much as I do. Tell him to get ##cked. Or just say nothing. That would probably be more appropriate. |
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Mixed Signals.... Couple questions. he says "you are not my type" but pays you complements out of the blue in relation to what a faithful spouse you would be - to those he knows would happily report such compliments to you ? He says he hates you, but then introduces you as "my friend" to one of his friends with a smile later? he agrees to get together to "discuss personal matters" (namely mixed signals) but then once you start to address the issue (that you went WAY out of your way to resolve) completely changes th subject? He refuses to look you in the eyes, but then stares at pictures of you on the wall, blankly, when he knows you can see what he's doing? when he refuses to talk to you for months on end, but then upon the next encounter wants to show you some lame card tricks - while completely sober? Ohhh...I've got tons more. Just ask! It means the person who dumped you doesn't know what he (or she, for that matter) wants, and is wasting your time. Pure and simple. |
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