Good answer, Kim!

I don't think there ever is a "right" time. I think you make the choice
to put yourself out there and do your best. Love is a risk but it is
worth it.

...it's time when you're raedy not to CHEAT.

I am like Abra.... I am never involved with more than one man at a
time...I like to give him my full love and attention.
Like he said...it may not be a committed relationship but still would
rather focus on one man at a time....

When it comes to the point and time that you are waking up next to them
every morning and both still have your own place. You plan your weeks
with each other instead of just doing your own thing. Your friends
become there friends as do there's become yours. You know for a fact how
they feel for you and those feelings are very much the same for them.
When it all feels like the right thing to do no pressure mutual
agreement. The main one is when there are no doubts how you feel about
them and ready to commit to just that one person.

There are no guarantee's in life that it will work out but until they
actually make the decision and take that next step they will never know.
Life is about making choices and and the only way you will know if they
will work is to actually follow through with those choices. Communcation
is the main factor , along with Trust and Respect for the other person.