Dump everything.

Everything.

Start over from scratch. Toothbrush, clothing, address...everything fresh.

Been there. Done that. In a forced-change setting, by choice.

That's how far.

And I am still trying to finish building the new life, at least to the basics of normalcy. For me, it has taken a few years.

So...how far? Beyond what I imagined that I can do; that far. Zero options for failure. Every thing of the former life is gone, except the name and the legal ties to blood kin.

Now, if your question is how far am I willing to go to change for the sake of a relationship with a woman...I've got my hands full just being me, building a new life.