been there done that

if he can't give you respect in the beginning it will only get worse with time...........

Do not become his door matt

What caamken said..
but with a female voice this time.

I don't want to become a door mat, it just sucks what if he is legit. And because I may have become a bit cynical in my years of dating I don't believe him. Since I don't know him all that well yet, I can't judge the sincerity of his appology.

Go with your gut instinct. Have you detected anything in his voice during your previous conversations to make you think he is no longer interested?

Maybe give him one more chance and if his dog, cat, hamster or uncle end up dying before the date, you'll know what to do.



I agree.

I smell death I believe he just did not want to meet.
He is just going to pull this junk again, cause he thinks he has you where he wants you.

Like the guy I met, I even deleted him from my friends list on here, and last night he sent for a friends request again. Thats just a player trying to get his ball's so he knows who he can score with.

Looking through the Orbituaries?? You are kiddin' right?
I would just move on. It's like being late to your first interview. What a first impression!
And then he does not call to say he is not gonna make it? Double-whammy in my book. Even if the story is true that his aunt died, it sounds like you may have trust issues with this guy already, and you two haven't even met yet. Maybe from a previous let down of him not calling or contacting you when he was supposed to. Just politely tell him that you have made plans with another man, and move on. There are no feelings involved yet, and if this had of been a job interview, well, he wouldn't of gotten the job. I wouldn't have hired him. Just my opinion.

..increased chance of judging his sincerity if you guys meet in person...(body language, visuals..ect)...i think the benefits of meeting outweigh the risks in this case..i would meet if i were you..

roco