I'm sorry I didn't mean becuase your miserable. Just that you found a way to get past it in some way. It looks like anyway.

I'm not past it. I'm just to damn stubborn to let it kill me.

Maybe your right. I think it just hurts not to be loved back. . .

it's a bitter pill but just because you love someone doesn't mean you get to have em

I remembered that he was not the only thing in my life that brought me happiness. I just focused on the other things in my life that make me happy. And I'm just moving on. Life is to short to spend it in misery. Yea I'm hurt, I'm sad, and I'm pissed. But I'm still moving on and I will get thru it.

Maybe it's just a different pill I have to swallow.

it burns going down tho

national average is 97 % failure rate...sure you wanna go there..??

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Ouch.

There was for me. I remarried her. Then we got divorced again. Lucky for me I found the promises in the big book of AA. "We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it." I find comfort in keeping the past in the past. I am cognizant of it but for me insanity is still making the same mistakes over and over and expecting different results.

well if that is the case go get her man. a good woman is hard to find chase her ass down and get her. if she loves you she will take you back, do something real stupid and embarassing in front of everyone and see what she does you will get her back if she loves you.

been through the same thing stay focused on your own happiness ,you should not have to apologize for something you did not do.the pain will fade in time ,but if you broke up once the chances of her doing it again to you are greater for the second time and then you will be going through it all over again.. just hang in there ..

I hope they dont make that pill, dont want her back. But if you had asked me that after she left I would have wanted to buy some. It takes time to move on. The pain and lonlyness get to you sometimes, but it does get better. Do I still have love for her? You bet I do, but I know that I am a better person now with out her and I could never go back to the way it was. So keep your head up and move forward. If it was ment to be than she will come back, If she dont than it was never ment to be.

i find that when i go on a date and it does not go to well i just wont call them for a while then when they call me its game on buddy.. just act like shes not there women HATE that (most anyways)

There is a way of thinking, some information I've gleaned over the years from watching people around the AA tables, of seeing it in the patients I've taken care of on an inpatient psychiatric unit. It's simple. In every relationship, at any one point in time, there is The Runner and The Chaser. It is not really game playing. The Chaser has an opportunity to just plain stop chasing. Call it a focus change. Become interested, absorbed, even passionate about something else. If the woman has any feelings at all for you, she will take note of the behavior and may choose to become the chaser, she may not. The cliche, "Time heals all wounds!" hurts like hell during the healing process. God be with you!

Is there a magic pill to get your ex back?

Yep. It's called cyanide. You can get her back (at least her body) that way guaranteed.

Since we don't know the whole story about your situation, it is hard to give you advice on what to do. What caused the break up? Has this happened before? Etc.

Based on what you have told us, I agree with the others on leaving her alone. Let her play her games and just go on with your life.

Actually, that is one of the definitions of insanity. People do it all the time in their lives.

Based on this, you are in an endless cycle. It's up to you to either break that cycle or continue doing the same old thing.

Ask yourself if you want her back because you don't think anyone in the whole wide world could be better for you than her or because you simply need companionship.

Acceptance is a good word to learn.