I really need some advice here.... My friend and I txted someone we know and it started out as a joke but I flirted(yes I know that was stupid) well this person does not know who it came from and I told him that I choose not to disclose who I am becuz I would be shy or humilated and I know he cares for his gf well over the past 4 or 5 days he's called unavailable on my cell, I hear from friends he's probaly interested but I feel I am not his type becuz he is so intelligent.. What do you think? I think he just wants to know who it is?

I think you will never know if you don't find out

I think you're about to find out how healthy you are. I know there's alot of talk in meetings, such as, "no relationships in the first year" etc, but sometimes it's important to know why a good 4th step on relationships alone is useful. Good luck.

you said he has a gf? are you trying to break them up? are you interested in this guy?

I would say that if he has a girlfriend you should just ignore the text messages and calls...really not fair to her from either of you...I'm sure neither of you would appreciate this being done to you

there is a mystery on his part
of course it's intriguing

Is this an example of how the "other woman" thinks? I honestly don't see the mystery. The guy's got a girlfriend.

but if someone else is showing interest in him and he doesn't know who it it....i don't care if you're completely in love and been married for decades...you're going to wonder who it is.