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Topic: I don't get people...
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Sun 01/18/09 09:00 PM
You gave a good tip, right? laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 01/18/09 09:02 PM
you know the only thing that bugs me is she finally responded and said possibly Tuesday well hang out. I hope she isn't just saying that >_<

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Sun 01/18/09 09:26 PM

So, the waitress at Friendly's Wednesday night was a nice person, and she talked to me and my friend for 30 minutes. She seemed pretty cool, so we went back and I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and things seemed pretty good I texted her that night to make sure it was real. Fast forward to friday (she told me wednesday she'd text me tomorrow and never did), and I asked her out to coffee. She was working then had laundry to do so she said lets do it another time. I didn't text her Saturday and about an hour ago I sent her a text. I just started a hey whats up convo and asked when she would be free, and all she said was she starts school Wednesday.. I asked about tomorrow, and she said I'm working all day. I asked her when she would be available, and she never responded.. I'm starting to think maybe she just doesn't want to see me, and just gave me her # to be nice..


If a woman is interested in you, she will ask if your married or have a GF. After you answer "no" to both questions, wait for her to drop the hint that she would like to go out.
Also, never ask a woman to go out with you until you've know her for about a month.
What you've done, is make her think your desperate.
Also, if you just met her, and you flirted with her at all, she thinks you flirt with every gal you meet. Thats my opinion smokin


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Sun 01/18/09 09:30 PM

you know the only thing that bugs me is she finally responded and said possibly Tuesday well hang out. I hope she isn't just saying that >_<


Stop texting her. Let her contact you. You've already put the ball in her court.

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Sun 01/18/09 09:34 PM
Edited by bryguy1972 on Sun 01/18/09 09:38 PM
double post, sorry

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Sun 01/18/09 09:37 PM

you know the only thing that bugs me is she finally responded and said possibly Tuesday well hang out. I hope she isn't just saying that >_<


Don't waste your time.

Next time you ask a woman for a phone number, actually call her and talk to her. You will know within a few minutes of the conversation if she is interested or not. You can tell by the person's voice.

Save the texting for someone you are actually dating or for your friends, not someone you just met.

Keep in mind that you are going to run into rejection no matter what you look like. If you understand that upfront, you won't get bent out of shape every time a woman doesn't call or says, "Sorry, I'm permanently busy."

shades

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Sun 01/18/09 10:59 PM
Waitresses work for tips. You get tips by being nice to people... just throwing that out there.

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Sun 01/18/09 11:21 PM
WELL OUR JOB HERE IS DONE.............YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN SELF...........WHAT THE HELL DO YOU NEED FROM MINGLE A REFERENCE VERIFICATION?

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Mon 01/19/09 07:28 AM
This really isn't 3 pages worth of hard. She was friendly because she works with the public. She was kind & not good at saying "no" so she gave you her #.

OBVIOUSLY she's regretted it since hon. ie She does NOT want to spend time with you.
Just move on.

Please.

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Mon 01/19/09 07:29 AM

Waitresses work for tips. You get tips by being nice to people... just throwing that out there.



((( HELLO MCFLY :wink: )))

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Mon 01/19/09 07:32 AM
Move on. You could be wasting your time with someone more to your interest!flowerforyou

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Mon 01/19/09 09:18 AM

WELL OUR JOB HERE IS DONE.............YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN SELF...........WHAT THE HELL DO YOU NEED FROM MINGLE A REFERENCE VERIFICATION?

Damn you're rude. I don't know anything about women and how they work hence why I asked here. I won't ask anymore questions because you people just seem to jump down everyones throat. No one here actually knows what this person is thinking, and quite frankly you all made me not care. I don't see why everyone has to be so rude and angry at me. I can't read peoples minds and I don't ask people for their numbers, so I've never experienced anything like this. I'm glad you all just assume I know everything that this person is thinking, and can just say nasty things to me for a question I'm unsure of.

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Mon 01/19/09 09:22 AM


WELL OUR JOB HERE IS DONE.............YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN SELF...........WHAT THE HELL DO YOU NEED FROM MINGLE A REFERENCE VERIFICATION?

Damn you're rude. I don't know anything about women and how they work hence why I asked here. I won't ask anymore questions because you people just seem to jump down everyones throat. No one here actually knows what this person is thinking, and quite frankly you all made me not care. I don't see why everyone has to be so rude and angry at me. I can't read peoples minds and I don't ask people for their numbers, so I've never experienced anything like this. I'm glad you all just assume I know everything that this person is thinking, and can just say nasty things to me for a question I'm unsure of.


we've given you advice, and you keep coming up with more reasons and more excuses why we're wrong. it's COMMON SENSE ... she's showing that she is not interested to you. and yet you still dont believe it... MOVE ON. there are better girls out there that will actually make an effort to talk and hang out with you. so you lost one? owell. it happens to everyone. congratulations on getting up the courage to ask for her number... but it didn't work out. move on...

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Mon 01/19/09 09:22 AM

So, the waitress at Friendly's Wednesday night was a nice person, and she talked to me and my friend for 30 minutes. She seemed pretty cool, so we went back and I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and things seemed pretty good I texted her that night to make sure it was real. Fast forward to friday (she told me wednesday she'd text me tomorrow and never did), and I asked her out to coffee. She was working then had laundry to do so she said lets do it another time. I didn't text her Saturday and about an hour ago I sent her a text. I just started a hey whats up convo and asked when she would be free, and all she said was she starts school Wednesday.. I asked about tomorrow, and she said I'm working all day. I asked her when she would be available, and she never responded.. I'm starting to think maybe she just doesn't want to see me, and just gave me her # to be nice..



:cry: Game overtears

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Mon 01/19/09 09:24 AM

So, the waitress at Friendly's Wednesday night was a nice person, and she talked to me and my friend for 30 minutes. She seemed pretty cool, so we went back and I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and things seemed pretty good I texted her that night to make sure it was real. Fast forward to friday (she told me wednesday she'd text me tomorrow and never did), and I asked her out to coffee. She was working then had laundry to do so she said lets do it another time. I didn't text her Saturday and about an hour ago I sent her a text. I just started a hey whats up convo and asked when she would be free, and all she said was she starts school Wednesday.. I asked about tomorrow, and she said I'm working all day. I asked her when she would be available, and she never responded.. I'm starting to think maybe she just doesn't want to see me, and just gave me her # to be nice..
spent 30 min talking to you while waitressing? hope she had no other customers!

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Mon 01/19/09 09:25 AM
Edited by andrew101888 on Mon 01/19/09 09:26 AM



WELL OUR JOB HERE IS DONE.............YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN SELF...........WHAT THE HELL DO YOU NEED FROM MINGLE A REFERENCE VERIFICATION?

Damn you're rude. I don't know anything about women and how they work hence why I asked here. I won't ask anymore questions because you people just seem to jump down everyones throat. No one here actually knows what this person is thinking, and quite frankly you all made me not care. I don't see why everyone has to be so rude and angry at me. I can't read peoples minds and I don't ask people for their numbers, so I've never experienced anything like this. I'm glad you all just assume I know everything that this person is thinking, and can just say nasty things to me for a question I'm unsure of.


we've given you advice, and you keep coming up with more reasons and more excuses why we're wrong. it's COMMON SENSE ... she's showing that she is not interested to you. and yet you still dont believe it... MOVE ON. there are better girls out there that will actually make an effort to talk and hang out with you. so you lost one? owell. it happens to everyone. congratulations on getting up the courage to ask for her number... but it didn't work out. move on...

k thats great i'm glad you think that everyone in the world is same but they're not they're different. different, but you say its common sense. im so glad you know everything and every situation in this world to a T. congratulations you should become a psychic

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Mon 01/19/09 09:27 AM




WELL OUR JOB HERE IS DONE.............YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN SELF...........WHAT THE HELL DO YOU NEED FROM MINGLE A REFERENCE VERIFICATION?

Damn you're rude. I don't know anything about women and how they work hence why I asked here. I won't ask anymore questions because you people just seem to jump down everyones throat. No one here actually knows what this person is thinking, and quite frankly you all made me not care. I don't see why everyone has to be so rude and angry at me. I can't read peoples minds and I don't ask people for their numbers, so I've never experienced anything like this. I'm glad you all just assume I know everything that this person is thinking, and can just say nasty things to me for a question I'm unsure of.


we've given you advice, and you keep coming up with more reasons and more excuses why we're wrong. it's COMMON SENSE ... she's showing that she is not interested to you. and yet you still dont believe it... MOVE ON. there are better girls out there that will actually make an effort to talk and hang out with you. so you lost one? owell. it happens to everyone. congratulations on getting up the courage to ask for her number... but it didn't work out. move on...

k thats great i'm glad you think that everyone in the world is same but they're not they're different. different, but you say its common sense. im so glad you know everything and every situation in this world to a T. congratulations you should become a psychic


i should :laughing:

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