ok maybe i am dumb....but i am on a couple other sites also, one site i belong to you have to pay to message someone but can flirt for free. well i got a flirt from this guy, i flirted back he peeked my intrest well then i get another flirt from the same guy on another site again you had to pay to talk well a day later i get an e-mail on my myspace from him!!! all it said was hi sweetheart. well we emailed for a couple days then started texting...we talked on the phone last night and things went really well so i thought...i have texted him a couple times today and never got anything in return..he has been online a few times and hasnt emailed me or anything...i know he might be busy but it only takes a min to say hey...he went thru all that trouble to find me on myspace and now he wont talk to me i dont know i dont want to keep bothering him but i really like him so how long should i wait before i give up???

you should give it one week before you give up on him, jsut like text him and say 'hey hit me up when you get a chance' or something like that. if he dont text you or e-mail you then he was not worth it. either way dont beat yourself up over it ok?

Gosh i have no clue. When you find that answer out, please let me know!! We're almost in the same boat here!

He wasn't looking for only you.
He might have gotten responses from other ladies, too.
Busy, busy, busy.

Or...something came up.

JMO- Wait it out-If he really wants to talk to you -he will contact you.No man is worth having to chase them down-

well dont pay at all thats the first thing. there are enough free sites. the other thing is leave your options open and dont get involved too early. Be honest and tell him and see if he can be cool or if he tries to take advantage, if he tries to take advantage you know to move on.

You could send a couple emails

hey i am worth it!

Ouch!!

LOL-I just meant the man should email first....LOL Well i would hope if a guy liked me -He would let me know.:)

Don’t wait around for any man. Just keep going and if you meet someone else, great. If he contacts you again, wonderful. Then you will have two men on your hands. You don’t owe him anything.

....Or check his emails...It doesn't take THAT long

If you have sent him messages already today, leave it be. If he never contacts you back, no biggie. That's the way it goes on these dating websites. They peak your interest, you chat a few times and then nothing from them. Plenty of other people out there. This is a numbers game.

Like the other guy said, don't pay for dating websites. There are plenty of free ones.

I would ignore him. That happens to me all the time where they message me and talk for a few days then just stop. Even delete his number. Or something. If he doesn't talk in a week forget about him. Ur a pretty young woman. Let him chase you. Do not message him again.

i agree with you lol i hate number games tho...too many ppl after the same one person its ridiculous...and this is the only completly free site that i have found

just so everyone knows...lol...he was cute and sweet but not going to work out with me and this guy that tracked me down hahaha