Topic: What do you do when:
Ekho's photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:22 PM
Someone is doing something "for you", that you don't particularly want, and never asked for, and you know the person is only doing it because they feel other people expect them to, not because they really want to?

And I know the "tell them you're fine without it" and such, Or "grin and bear it", but honestly, is there anything that isnt already a cliché'd answer?

*Sorry if this seems a little harsh. Chalk it up stress plzKthnx?*

MeChrissy2's photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:23 PM
*kissing him gently* You don't worry about what you can't control and smile.

no photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:23 PM
what slaphead

no photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:24 PM
Yuo have to be an asshole sometimes.

eastcoastpoet's photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:26 PM
tell them that's uncomfortable.... or it hurts. ask them if they want you to show him/her what you like.

trust me - everyone is worried that they are not good in bed. they'd be happy to know what you want.
:D


MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:26 PM

Someone is doing something "for you", that you don't particularly want, and never asked for, and you know the person is only doing it because they feel other people expect them to, not because they really want to?

And I know the "tell them you're fine without it" and such, Or "grin and bear it", but honestly, is there anything that isnt already a cliché'd answer?

*Sorry if this seems a little harsh. Chalk it up stress plzKthnx?*


:smile: Tell them you dont want it:smile:

Ted14621's photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:26 PM
Oh well, live and let live.:wink:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:26 PM

Yuo have to be an asshole sometimes.
:smile: yes indeed:smile:

Ekho's photo
Sun 01/11/09 02:40 PM

*kissing him gently* You don't worry about what you can't control and smile.


Thank you Sugar.. I'm trying too..


tell them that's uncomfortable.... or it hurts. ask them if they want you to show him/her what you like.

trust me - everyone is worried that they are not good in bed. they'd be happy to know what you want.
:D

I almost wish it were in bed.. Then I'd just flip her over and switch things up...

This is more, and less, complicated than that..

Thanks Y'all..

Drifters13's photo
Sun 01/11/09 04:02 PM

Someone is doing something "for you", that you don't particularly want, and never asked for, and you know the person is only doing it because they feel other people expect them to, not because they really want to?

And I know the "tell them you're fine without it" and such, Or "grin and bear it", but honestly, is there anything that isnt already a cliché'd answer?

*Sorry if this seems a little harsh. Chalk it up stress plzKthnx?*


Sometimes you have to be an a$$hole. Tell them its none of their business and stay out of it.